Thanksgiving and College Choice: Answering Aunt Mable and Uncle Ron’s questions about your seniors future.

As Thanksgiving approaches, families gather, bringing an air of excitement and, often, a flurry of questions for our high school seniors: "Where are you going to college next year? What will you major in?" While these questions come from a place of love and interest, they can add pressure to our teens already navigating a significant life decision. Here's how to support your child during this pivotal time:

1. Open Dialogues, Not Directives ???

Encourage open discussions about college choices. Rather than directing, listen. Your role is to be a sounding board, helping your senior articulate their thoughts and preferences. Remember, this is their journey, and your support is invaluable.

2. Exploring Majors – A Journey of Discovery ??

Choosing a major can be overwhelming. Remind your child that it is okay not to have all the answers now. Many students start college undecided or change their majors. Encourage exploration and curiosity - it’s about finding their passion, not just picking a job.

3. Handling the Thanksgiving Table Talk ??

Prepare your child for the inevitable questions during family gatherings. They can practice simple, non-committal answers like, "I'm still exploring my options," or "I'm excited to see where I end up." Remind them that it is perfectly okay not to have a clear answer yet.

4. Beyond Academics – The Holistic View ??

Talk about the college experience beyond academics. Discuss campus culture, extracurricular activities, and life skills they will gain. Tech or trades, 2-years or 4-years are all viable options. It is about growing as a person, not just earning a degree.

5. Stress Management and Mindfulness ??

Finally, recognize the stress this process can bring. Encourage healthy habits, mindfulness, and breaks from the college discussion when needed. Your senior’s well-being is paramount!

???????? As parents, our guidance and understanding can make a world of difference. Let’s create a supportive environment where our seniors feel empowered to make the best decision for their future.

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