Taking the Time to Find Your Calling: Two Ways to Get Started
I’ve been reading an interesting book by Richard J. Leider and David A. Shapiro called Whistle While You Work: Heeding Your Life’s Calling. The authors explain that in many instances our calling comes to us when we are removed from everyday routine—that’s when we are able to listen to what authentically moves us from the inside.
Each summer, my wife, Margie, and I spend time at our lake home in upstate New York, where we are removed from our everyday routine and obligations in San Diego. This change of scenery allows me to do just what the authors of the book describe: I get time to think about where I want to make a difference in the world. In fact, I do most of my writing at the lake. I have time to think about the issues leaders are facing around the world and spend time researching and writing articles and books that offer solutions to those challenges.
So what’s your calling—and how do you discover it? In addition to taking the time to quiet yourself by removing yourself from routine, I also think it is important to identify the activities that cause you to lose track of time—that’s a hallmark of a calling versus something you are driven to accomplish. For me, writing at the lake certainly ticks that box. How about you? Think about using vacation time to quiet yourself. Pay attention to what you learn. This concept goes beyond what you do to make a living—think about what you want to do in your community or with your family that will support your values and purpose.
It’s never too late to make changes in your life by taking advantage of your most precious commodity—time. Life is a very special occasion, so celebrate it by finding and honoring your authentic self!
Interim Executive Director at the University of Lynchburg | 30 years of serving as an Innovative & Encouraging Career Services Leader
9 年Good morning Ken! I couldn't agree more. It actually sounds like I could have written this article. I also enjoy writing while at my lake house and hope that others take the time to truly explore what excites them and makes life fulfilling! Have a great day!
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9 年Great post Ken, I really like the idea of quieting yourself and reflecting on what activities cause us to loose track of time. I also think taking some time every day, be it 10 minutes or 30, to quiet ourselves. It not only helps us reflect, but also recharge.
Senior Executive Director
9 年I found my calling by getting aggravated by the number of people who said upon being acknowledged, "Thank you for thanking me. No one ever does that" and "I never hear compliments. I only hear complaints." So I wrote "The Power of Acknowledgment," which is about the same size as "The One Minute Manager." That got me on the road teaching leaders how to show appreciation and gratitude toward their stakeholders and the rest is history. I guess those of us who attended New Rochelle High School (I'm from the class of '65) got a good solid writing education and learned to write brief and powerful books. You're one of my heroes and role models, Ken!