Taking Stock

As we enter the 5th week of the Corona Virus pause button, I have had the opportunity to find time for reflection, reading and reaching out. 

Reaching out to family, friends and clients to see how they are managing and ensuring them that they will overcome the various challenges they are facing, regardless of the struggles, fear, self-doubt and loneliness that they may be feeling. 

What I have learned from these conversations is plentiful. 

1.     Time is Both Fast and Slow

The days seem to rush by and quite often melt into one another, so that people actually forget what day of the week it is. The demands of work and family loom large, yet somehow, we manage to get things done and celebrate these “mini-wins”.

2.     We Have More Than We Think (..or thought) We Have

The rush to grab a cup of coffee at Tim Horton’s or Starbucks (…for those with the more expensive palate) seems to have subsided and going into our kitchen to prepare a cup of coffee or tea has become a more appreciated ritual than we use to grant this activity. Think of all the money that has been saved by not spending!

3.     We are Stronger Than We Think

Some of the conversations that I have had are about hope and getting things done differently than before. Whether it be revving up or slowing down…. the confidence that this too shall pass, and we will survive regardless of the balance in our bank accounts or the “stuff” that we thought was important.

4.     The Gratitude of Friendship

Getting back in touch with people that we always intended to, yet never made the time. The richness of friendship that was never cultivated is being tended to in many ways. Either a joke by email, a positive thought via text, an Easter or Passover dinner via Zoom. This time has allowed space in our minds to actually “think” about others instead of ourselves.

5.     Quiet Generosity

Some people have made appointments to donate blood, contribute financially to food banks, shelters, nursing homes, picking up and delivering groceries for neighbors, and understanding that however challenging their situation may be, there are others in dire need and unable to help themselves.

6.     “I” has Become “We”

Taking simple measures like social distancing and hand washing is a commitment and will result in taking care of the weak and the vulnerable of our community. Something that was rarely if ever at the top of our daily routines.

7.    The Praise of Unsung Heroes

The doctors, nurses, health care workers, caregivers, truck drivers, and retail employees who trudge out daily to continue to care for our sick and go to work at a risk to their own personal health and family’s safety. To these individuals we offer our gratitude and respect.

So…with that being stated, I challenge everyone to take a moment to take stock and consider all the things they are grateful for during these rather interesting times.