Taking The Piss: Demystifying Piss Play

Urolagnia (also called urophilia, golden shower, or watersports) is a fetish where a person finds sexual excitement or arousal from urine or the act of urination.

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The term has origins in the Greek language, from ‘ouron’ meaning 'urine', and ‘lagneia’ meaning 'lust.’

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This can manifest in various ways, and common variations include:

·?????? Clothes wetting: The person is sexually aroused by wetting their clothing or observing another person doing so. For the wetter, the warm sensation felt when urine trickles on the body gives a relaxing and pleasurable feeling. There is also, the arousal by smelling urine-soaked clothing or body parts.

·?????? Exhibitionism: This is where a person becomes noticeably desperate to wee or wetting oneself with the express purpose of being seen by strangers.

·?????? Omorashi: This is the act of holding your own urine until the need to pee is urgent, or making another hold in their urine, or watching another person with an urgent need to urinate. The arousal from being desperate to pee comes from the sensation of having a full bladder.

·?????? Human urinal: Within the BDSM community, some desire to be used as a human urinal, or to use a human urinal. As the kink implies, it involves the submissive receiving urine, either in their mouth, over them, or/and inside their body.

·?????? Soupeur: This is the attraction to bread soaked in urine, or semen.

·?????? Voyeurism: Seeing another urinate.

·?????? Golden shower: This is where a shower or stream of urine is directed onto another for sexual pleasure. It is also known as ‘watersports.’

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If any of the above has piqued your kinky interest, then you are in good company:

·?????? Ricky Martin, the famous a Puerto Rican singer, gave an interview with Blender Magazine stating that he enjoyed, "giving the golden shower".

·?????? Patrice O’Neal, the American standup comedian, has on several occasions mentioned his appreciation for golden showers, even stating that his girlfriend noticing that his urine tasted like birthday cake and this is how he came to find out that he suffered from diabetes.

·?????? Annie Sprinkle, the American porn actress, sex educator, and advocate for female sexual enjoyment, derived her stage name from her obsession with urine and bodily fluids.

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So, is getting sprinkly with urolagnia safe? The World Health Organization (WHO) has found that the pathogens contained in urine rarely pose a health risk. Note that urine is not actually sterile though, as it still contains natural bacteria from your body.

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The psychology of urophilia is hypothesised that the kinkster may have repeatedly witnessed the urination of their parent(s), or were forced to hold their pee as a child, or May have been frequently left in wet nappies. Another hypothesis is that urine is regarded as an extremely personal substance, so that urinating upon your lover, or have them urinate on you, is considered as a way to have a closer bond with them. In addition, male urophilia can be linked to impotence, and urination is seen as a replacement for the actual act of sexual intercourse, with some cultures barely acknowledging a difference between urine and semen.

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From the D/s aspect, urophilia is a practice that can be linked to the desire of dominating or being dominated, which can be extending into a desire of humiliating or being humiliated. Submitting to the piss of someone who is more dominant can be degrading, and put you ‘in your place.’ It is an act of worship by the submissive. In degradation there is also intimacy; the Dominant is showing that their submissive is worth every ounce of their Dominant’s time, attention, and body. Another reason that some kinksters enjoy watersports is the tabooness of it. The naughtiness of pissing on someone or being pissed upon, perceives pee as something private or dirty. So performing this act can make you feel super close to your partner by being an elite and experiencing something that has come from their body. Plus, you can enjoy getting wet and messy. Urolagnia lovers enjoy the warm, wet feeling of urine. There is the element of vulnerability that accompanies the act of urination, along with the thrill of engaging in a less conventional activity.

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Here are some common reasons why someone might be drawn to urolagnia:

·?????? Taboo excitement: Many people find themselves aroused by activities that feel naughty or forbidden. Some consider urination to be a private, dirty bodily function, so integrating it into playtime can evoke strong feelings of excitement for some.

·?????? Sensory experience: The warmth and wetness associated with urine can be pleasurable, especially when contrasted with other sensations. The physical feeling of the liquid on skin or/and the sound of urination can be arousing.

·?????? Intimacy and vulnerability: A kink or fetish that requires being vulnerable can foster a sense of closeness and trust with a partner. Sharing a less conventional interest can deepen intimacy and create a unique bond.

·?????? Power and control dynamics: Urolagnia can be part of a power dynamic in a D/s dynamic, as one may enjoy the act of being submissive and urinated upon, or asserting dominance by being the one who urinates.

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“Daddy needs a wee,” is a phrase that never ceases to get me excited. There is nothing unnatural about playing with pee for me, as it is so undisputedly a product from the body, it is warm at body temperature, and redolent of your partner’s uniqueness, meaning that it smells and tastes unique to them, having the same effect as pheromones, which is all comforting and satisfying to experience. There is also the psychological effect of being scent marked by him, it is as if he is warning everyone that I am theirs.

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It is clear that, sexual arousal is complex! It involves physical, psychological, and emotional factors all playing a role. So, how do you integrate urolagnia into your sex life safely? Here are a few important health, safety, and hygiene tips:

·?????? Stay hydrated: Drink plenty of water before engaging in watersports to dilute the urine, making it less pungent and more palatable, as it will be almost clear and have a soft odour.

·?????? Consider your environment: Conduct watersports in places where it is easy to clean up, like the shower or bathtub, in order to minimise the mess, and this will keep things hygienic.

·?????? Avoid contact with the eyes and open wounds: Although urine is almost sterile, it can still cause irritation if it comes into contact with the eyes or enters any cuts or open wounds, so pee on areas such as the torso, thighs, feet, buttocks, and back to keep things safe.

·?????? Post-play cleanup: After engaging in urolagnia, shower together and clean the body thoroughly to prevent lingering odours or any discomfort, it will also reinforce intimacy and connection between you.

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Whether you are someone who enjoys being urinated upon, the kinkster who derives pleasure from being the urinator, someone who simply enjoys watching the act of urination, a panties wetter, or a curious sprinkler, always keep your watersports safe, sane, and consensual.

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References:

en.m.wikipedia.org

psychology.fandom.com

mediamatic.net

abc.net.au

beknowntherapy.com

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