It takes a team!

I met my husband, Darrell, in grade school.?We dated in high school and got married in college and this weekend, we celebrate 40 years together as life partners.?Little did I know what an important role my husband would play in my career.??I knew he’d be a great friend, husband, and father to our children, but I never could have guessed just what a key role he’d play in my success as a leader.

As a CPA and ultimately a partner in a real-estate development business, Darrell established his career first.??We had two beautiful children and family was important to both of us.?As the wireless industry grew and my career took off, it became apparent that I had an opportunity to scale a career in a fast-growing industry, but it would require us to move.

Darrell put his career on hold and became the CEO of our family.??He was there to participate with the kids in sports, help with school, shuttle them between activities and became the anchor in our family.??One move led to another, and my career became more demanding.??The kids went off to college and began their own lives as adults and yet, we still thrived on being a family.??We began our Friday night champagne tradition and used this time to celebrate our shared accomplishments for the week while planning the week ahead.?

When I decided to leave Verizon, it was a shared decision, one that we spent many hours discussing, knowing it would shift not just how I spend my time but how he’ll spend his time.??So, why do I share this on LinkedIn?

I’m often asked, what is the key to a successful career??And while there are many factors that contribute to a successful career, having a partner who is committed to your success, shares your values and goals while cheering you on is one of the most important assets you’ll ever have.??

So, this weekend, as we celebrate 40 years, I am reminded of just how important it is that we all take home the best of us to our families each day and not just the leftovers.??After all, is there really anything more important than family?

Happy 40th Anniversary Darrell; thank you for being my partner and the CEO of our home!