Take Off Your Mask
Grant Herbert
Empowering today's great professional services technicians to become exceptional leaders | Executive Coach | Team Coach | Leadership Trainer and Mentor | Inspirational Keynote Speaker | Mental Health Advocate
Are you continually pretending to be someone that you're not, just so other people will accept you?
I know that is something I did for many years. The problem is, as you continue to do that, you chip away at your true self, and after a while, you forget who you are supposed to be.
Well, stick with me because this week I want to continue the conversation about building up who it is that you believe you are and helping you to think and behave differently.
Hi, this is Grant Herbert, VUCA Leadership and Sustainable Performance Coach, and today I want to continue our conversation around building your identity by helping you to?remove the mask.
For most of my life, I wore a mask. I pretended to be who I thought others needed me to be so that I could avoid those three universal fears: The fear of not belonging, the fear of not being enough, and the fear of not being loved.
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Through the things that had happened in my past and what I'd made them mean about me, I was continually trying not to be rejected.
The problem is, though, when you are focusing on what you don't want, you tend to walk towards it. Our behaviour (because it comes up out of our subconscious conditioning) takes us directly down that path anyway.
So how do you get to remove this mask? Read the full article to learn how...
Grant Herbert (aka The People Builder) describes himself as an ordinary guy, with an outstanding wife and 5 amazing kids, who has a passion to help people escape the performance trap and regain their authenticity in every area of life. He is a VUCA Leadership Mentor, Sustainable Performance Coach, Master Coach Trainer in Social and Emotional Intelligence,?and the founder of People Builders.
Visit?www.grantherbert.com?to find out how you can connect.