Take that DECISION

There are times we end up in dilemmas over love, career, relationship. These decisions which are of great importance brings a tsunami of confusion. We become practical all at once. However we take decisions on regular basis but why do the crucial ones puzzle us? Everyday decisions such as choosing which clothes to wear what to eat doesn’t require much effort as compared to bigger decisions in life our mind is used to it. But when the situation is new our brain may panic. In my personal experience with my clients whenever the road which is righteous is difficult. To define difficult, I would say something which is out of the comfort zone but not practically difficult in its essence. Moreover if we have equal inclination to both the options where reasons may differ can exaggerate the problem. What gives more heat to the situation? Taking opinions from others. I mean how can other person judge and comment on your problem. Nobody in this world can guide you in your journey. Your journey is unique. Be aware of its uniqueness! As a counsellor also, one doesn’t get a liberty to take decisions on your behalf. Grass will always be greener on the other side till eternity! This is the problem of every human on this planet. The issue is universal. Surprised? Yes it is. Basically giving the authority to others to decide is a sign of not taking responsibility of your actions. After all, if something goes wrong we can blame it to the others. This is inevitable, why? Because one cannot be fully content with his or her Life. I guess we have understood the problem well the reasons which contribute to our confusing state of mind. How can be an efficient decision maker ? And why is it important? Life is not a straight road it has its own twists and turns and most importantly you cannot plan everything! Some things are not in your control darling! Trying to control everything will exhaust you. Here comes the importance of acceptance. Will you enjoy a movie if you already knew the ending? No. Because unpredictability brings excitement. Today people believe they are the master of their own destiny which is applaudable. But! Been too much devoted to this idea have lead people into depression. There is a difference between being responsible and controlling. Getting too serious in life will steal the joy from you. So have that chill attitude and take the steering wheel in your hand.