Take it a Day at a Time

Situations happen. Experiences take place, and whether they're good or not so good, they have the potential to change the trajectory of our lives. We often can't keep them from happening. In some cases even, we have no way of knowing that they're coming until they're already in front of us.

This truth, this occurrence as a whole, isn't always easy. Sometimes we feel like we're at the peak of our whole lives. Other times, we feel as if we've gone so low that we start to ask ourselves what we did wrong or what we could've done to deserve such a circumstance. If you're beating yourself up when this happens, please don't.

Everything That Happens is Meant

Life is already planned out for us, we're just not given the map so we're often left to have to figure things out. Everything down to the most unexpected moments were written in for us to face at the exact time that we faced it. The universe doesn't love or hate you more than it loves or hates the next person. In fact, it doesn't hate you at all. There are specific laws that it's governed by to make sure that you get the exact lessons you're meant to get during your lifetime. They aren't always good. They aren't always bad. There has to be a balance between the two though in order for everything to go according to that plan.

Nothing does or will ever stay the same, and the Universe knows this. This is why you hear so many people with more life experience telling you to live moment by moment because you can't guarantee that it will be the same years, months, weeks, or even days from NOW. They've lived and gone through a lot to be able to tell you this, and some feel as if they've learned it too late in their lives. What happened as a result? Well, it left many of them feeling guilty about what they haven't done. What they haven't said. Where they haven't gone, and what they haven't seen. Still, life had to go on, and so just as quickly as some things showed up, others disappeared.

Don't Beat Yourself Up. Live From Where You Are NOW

Regardless of how much you miss what WAS, do your best to live from where you currently are. Life is what it is NOW, and the past won't come back. It won't bring the people back that are no longer here. It won't bring back the circumstances that you once loved more than your current one. But what it can do is create new ones that you can enjoy and appreciate in the present moment. There's no need in any part of this existence to feel bad or remorseful about what's no longer, even if it's easier said than done right now. It was meant for just a specific point in your life, and it left when it was supposed to.

Where you are NOW is where you're meant to be. You've lived some, and you've learned much. From this point forward, the best thing to do is to live more, to learn more, and to do all you can. No one can get every single thing right, but that's okay too. There will continue to be moments where we're incredibly proud of ourselves, and there will also be the ones where we're not. Don't beat yourself up over the latter. Instead, ask yourself what the purpose was. Not "Why me?", but "What does this mean?". How can you take what happens, good or not, and apply it to your life later? What are you being taught by Source, and what can you teach others?

When you shift to this perspective and live from there, life becomes a different experience especially for the better. ?? can't directly say it will make everything much easier, but what ?? can tell you is that it makes life worth it on a greater scale. If you're facing a battle of any kind, personal or not, ?? send my love energy out to you. You can get through it just like you have everything else. You're stronger than you realize, and there's no better time than NOW to embrace it and accept it for what it is.