Take control of your choices

On Valentine, my wife wrote me a beautiful letter in celebration of our 18th anniversary. She ended her letter with the message about “choice” and our decision around that which motivates me to write this article. She said this, and I translate here: “We have the choice to choose peach or drama, to choose to accept or in denial, to choose to improve or taking the old path, to let go or to hold on to the past, to be happy or to be sad… Everything is about the choice we make. So be brave to decide the best for you and for the people around you.”

As human beings, we have been gifted with an incredible power which the power of choice. Our ability to make choices is a fundamental aspect of our existence, and it is this power that shapes our lives and determines our future. It means that we have control over our lives. We can choose to be happy, successful, and fulfilled, or we can choose to be unhappy, unfulfilled, and stagnant. The choices we make determine the path we take in life, and ultimately shape our destiny.

It is easy to fall into the trap of thinking that our circumstances dictate our lives, but the truth is, it is our choices that define us. Our circumstances may limit our

choices to a certain extent, but we always have a choice. We can choose to see

the silver lining in a difficult situation, or we can choose to focus on the

negatives. We can choose to be proactive and take control of our lives, or we

can choose to be reactive and let life happen to us.

The power of choice is not just limited to the big decisions we make, but it also applies to the small choices we make every day. We can choose to be kind, to help others, to work hard, to learn new things, and to take care of our physical and mental health. These small choices may seem insignificant, but they have a profound impact on our lives.

When we take ownership of our choices, we open up a world of possibilities. We can pursue our dreams, take risks, and create the life we want to live. We may encounter obstacles along the way, but we can always choose to persevere, to learn from our failures, and to keep moving forward. The choice is ours, and it is up to us to make the most of it. So, let us choose wisely, take ownership of our lives, and create the future we want to see.

Here are some tips to help you leverage your power of choice:

1.????Recognize that you have a choice: The first step in using your power of choice is recognizing that you have it. Once you are aware that you have a choice, you can start to take control of your life.

2.????Define your values and priorities: Knowing your values and priorities can help you make decisions that are in alignment with your beliefs and goals.

3.????Think first, act later: When faced with a decision, take a moment to consider the consequences of your actions. Think about what your choice will mean for your future.

4.????Consider multiple options: Don't limit yourself to one choice. Consider all of the options available to you, weigh the pros and cons of each, and choose the one that best aligns with your values and priorities.

5.????Be responsible for your decisions: Your choices have consequences, and it's important to take responsibility for those consequences. Never blame others for the choices you make.

6.????Be open and adapt to change: Your values and priorities may change over time, and that's okay. Be open to reassessing your choices and adjusting as needed.

7.????Learn from your mistakes: We all make mistakes, but it's important to learn from them. Reflect on the choices you've made in the past and think about what you could do differently in the future.

8.????Practice self-care: Taking care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally can help you make better choices. Make time for activities that bring you joy and help you recharge.

Our question for you: "What would you do to lead your power of choice?"