Take a Break Today, or You'll Break Apart
Ryan Holiday
Author of Discipline is Destiny, The Obstacle Is The Way, Ego is the Enemy & others.
Some people aren’t strict enough with themselves. But some of us are too strict.
The work from home situation in the pandemic has highlighted this difference in many of us. While many folks have struggled to get by financially, those lucky enough to keep working seem to fall into two camps. Some are spending all day in their pajamas, others are working longer hours than before. We feel obligated to answer every email, to accept every phone call, to show up for every Zoom call. Plus untold additional family and personal obligations.
No wonder that, according to a recent study done by EPIC Provisions, 60-70% of work from homers are feeling burned out. As it happens, this is an issue that dates way way back.
Musonius Rufus, like a lot of the Stoics, was a strict man. He was strict with himself. He was strict with his students. He believed in hard work, he did not ease up, just because other people did or because he had been successful.
A friend would describe one evening, when in Athens, when they were enjoying the Saturnalia—quite pleasantly, in fact: “We did not, however, let our minds go lax,” he wrote, “for, Musonius says, ‘to let one’s mind go lax is, in effect, to lose it.’”
Unfortunately, this is a common belief, not just among the Stoics. People think they are too important, the stakes of their work are too high, that there is not a minute to lose. So they never relax. They never shut off their minds. They never check out, or let go. And far too often they end up losing it.
EPIC’s survey found that those who are feeling burnout associate it with feeling the need to respond immediately, be on all the time and stuck to their computer. Taking a mental break and eating healthy snacks helps both personally and professionally.
I certainly relate to that.
"The mind must be given relaxation," Seneca said, "it will rise improved and sharper after a good break. Just as rich fields must not be forced...so constant work on the anvil will fracture the force of the mind."
All muscles need rest. The brain is no exception. Fields must be alternated. Computers must occasionally be shut down or rebooted. To not do this is to risk injury, poor yields, or damage. We are not in this life for the short term. We are trying to build sustainable, enduring success.
I’ve been excited the last week to work with EPIC on a campaign to encourage people to take more breaks. It’s important stuff. If you don’t take a break...you might end up being the one breaking.
Me? I like to get up early, tackle my important projects and then around 10 or 11, I get up from my desk and take a break. It’s too early for lunch and too late for breakfast, so I’ll grab a snack. I’ll read a book. Or go for a walk or call a friend. Sometimes I just stare out the window. I do the same in the afternoon, usually in the pool with my kids. But the point is: I let the mind go lax.
On purpose. So I don’t lose it.
Do yourself a favor and give yourself permission to do the same.
#TakeAnEPICBreak this week! so you can continue to be your best self.
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3 年Insightful article Ryan Holiday
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3 年If I go out into nature I often found my mind will answer most questions if you learn to relax and wait for the answer.
A good admonishment for me, as I fall into the burnt-out WFH category. I do find the cooler weather puts me in a contemplative mood, but I seem to relax most, paradoxically, in a state of mental detente. Going completely lax is the equivalent of taking my chattering mind to an "Om" state in yoga --> practically impossible. Instead of striving for perfect laxity, I content myself (most stoically!) with semi-relaxation. Instead of counting sheep, I'm counting roseate spoonbills on my dock. Because one can't run through to-do's and identify native species concurrently. I this this Henry James captures it: "Her deepest enjoyment was to feel the continuity between the movements of her own soul and the agitations of the world." Also, I would argue, there is a virtue in the overlap between perpetual pajamas and long work hours from home. Just read _The Obstacle Is The Way_ and getting into _Ego Is the Enemy_. If Christopher Hitchens ("I have been called arrogant myself in my time, and hope to earn the title again") were alive, I wonder what he would say to the latter. If you haven't read _Letters To A Young Contrarion_, please add it to your list!
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