Take A Break, Get Closer To Your Perfect Day

A few years back I would avoid the people at the party who weren't drinking, the tight gits didn't want to pay for a taxi or a babysitter or 'had to work' in the morning - YAWN!!!!!!

Sometimes I judged the odd "fitness freak" who didn't drink, I mean they were only doing a half marathon, not bloody Olympians. I just didn't get it! It can't be worth being THAT miserable for the sake of a few lagers at the family party could it?

Last night a client at my gym asked a great question. What was interesting in a group of 5 blokes stood chatting, 4 no longer drank..at all!

"Does not boozing contribute to the perfect day?"

I had to say yes..........but also no................... note I did a 90-day stint at the end of 2017 and then another in September 2018 which kind of became permanent..............so over 4 years without a drink .....which seems a long time but in relation to the 20 years where alcohol was my only real social pursuit its not really is it?

Not boozing led me to create some clarity by writing down my perfect day.......am I there yet? Nah.......but closer....and if you can imagine making decisions based on a vision of the future clarity ensues. I invested in coaching, in building my belief, in growing confidence to have tough conversations without needing 'dutch courage, and ultimately chasing a new lifestyle that would result in the person you see now, on a journey, always trying, gaining fufilment from contribution and sharing that story far and wide.

When I'm working with clients beyond our initial goal-setting sessions we spend some time on the Perfect Day. Could I focus on my home business and retrain in the fitness world yet be around at home more than the world of car finance allowed back then? Remember I had the option to buy a family business but school runs, going to the gym and working flexibly would not have been on the cards for many years......yet I'd given all my energy to that industry and didn't have much more to give......things had to change. I had to change. I had to grow to trust myself to make things work differently. So far they have and out of that are two very similar businesses. Both coach blokes, one is running a home business the other is coaching lifestyle and health.

Could a home-based business work for you? I work with a team of busy Dads spending our nooks and crannies in our own pursuit of the perfect day. Initially, around the day job, business, or career but over time choices can be made - as I ducked out of traditional business, your goal might be to dial yours up....and use what we do to boost the finances whilst you do.

One key point though is the lads making it work are busy in their break times, when the kids are in bed, working from home. Of course, they need to dial out of family life to sit an appointment now and again but with ultimate flexibility and no boss, this is up to them. The best thing is we are doing it together with a culture of "30 mins of bravery" to drum up enquiries, share their story, and connect with their network.

Maybe you need some separate guidance to help make the changes that would infinitely benefit you and the family but you've been putting off. From a commitment to your health, to stop you bobbing around on the ocean of life and setting your sail in a new direction.

So whether its to engage with me for some coaching or to work with us under the umbrella of our growing home business give me a shout.

You never know our chat might just lead to one day you enjoying your very own 'perfect day'.

Give me a shout on 07968 970704.

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