Swipe Right on Yourself: Love, Life Lessons & a Dash of Tadka – A Valentine’s Week Special! ??

Valentine’s Week—the time when love is in the air, or at least heavily marketed in every store you walk into. ?? Whether you're single ??♀?, taken ??, hanging out with your squad ??♂?, just vibing with your own fabulous self ??, or in a complicated situationship with your food delivery app ????, this week is about more than just mushy rom-com moments ?? and has something for everyone. ?

Let’s break it down first—because Valentine’s isn’t just a day anymore, it’s a whole Seven-day emotional rollercoaster:

?? Rose Day – The day we appreciate flowers before they inevitably wilt as they do all the talking because words are hard. (Like some relationships. Also, good luck finding a reasonably priced one!)

??? Propose Day – When some pop the question, while others pop popcorn and watch the drama unfold.

?? Chocolate Day – The universal day of love… or at least love for sugar. Let’s be honest, chocolates last longer than most promises (one day when calories don’t count).

?? Teddy Day – Because nothing says romance like gifting a stuffed bear that will sit on a shelf and collect dust forever (or become a pillow when you're too lazy to get an actual one).

??Promise Day – The day we make grand commitments that hopefully last longer than a New Year’s resolution.

?? Hug Day – An opportunity to collect free warm hugs. Just don’t make it awkward.

?? Kiss Day – A reminder that good dental hygiene is crucial (so if you're single, at least invest in minty fresh confidence).

?? Valentine’s Day – The grand finale, where lovebirds post couple selfies and singles celebrate discount chocolate season.

But hey, before you dive into the Valentine’s madness—stressing over the perfect gift ??, extravagant date ??, or that imaginary significant other (koi andekha, anjaana sa) you’re still waiting to meet ??—let’s talk about the most important love of all: self-love. ?? Love yourself like you’d swipe right on yourself! ???

?? Love Beyond Romance—More Than Roses and Candlelight Dinners

Let’s be real—love isn’t about grand gestures or dramatic movie-style confessions (though, let’s admit it, Bollywood has set some seriously high standards ????). It’s in the little things—like your spouse knowing exactly how you like your chai ?, your mom reminding you to carry an umbrella ?, your kid’s warm hug after a long day ??, your best friend lifting your mood when you’re feeling low ??, or your colleague saving you from yet another unnecessary meeting. Love is everywhere—it just comes in different packaging! ???

??Single? You’re Winning Too!

Valentine’s Day isn’t just for couples—it’s for YOU! ??? The longest relationship you’ll ever have is with yourself, so why not make it a great one? Treat yourself to that fancy coffee ?, splurge on that wish list item ???, or indulge in guilt-free binge-watching ????. Who said love must come in pairs? This week, let’s normalize self-love and celebrate the people—romantic or not—who make our lives brighter. ????

??The ‘Unromantic’ Love We Should Talk About

There’s love in things we often overlook. ???? Love is waking up early to hit the gym because your future self will thank you. ?? Love is showing up for your dreams, even on tough days. ?? Love is calling your parents just to hear their voice ??. Love is in friendship ??, teamwork ??, and those small acts of kindness ?? that make someone's day.

So, whether you’re celebrating with a partner ??, friends ??, or just your own fabulous self ??♀?, make this week about more than just clichés. Remember, love isn’t about grand gestures—it’s in the little moments ?, the laughs ??, and the people who make life sweeter ??. Spread love ??, spread joy ?, and most importantly spread kindness ?? by sharing some chocolates ??. Please remember—sharing is caring ??. (But no pressure. I wouldn’t share, either. ??)

So, here’s your Tuesday Tadka question: What’s the sweetest, most unexpected act of love you’ve ever received? A grand gesture, a simple hug, or someone saving the last slice of pizza just for you? ???? Drop it in the comments—or if it's a 'shy moment,' slide into my DMs. Because love stories come in all forms, and I’d love to hear yours. ???

Signing off with love and lots of hugs, ????

Niloofer ??

P.S. If you’re gifting me chocolates, make it dark chocolate only—let’s keep things classy. ??

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