Surrender to what is. Let go of what was.

Surrender to what is, and let go of what was!

It is important to live in the present for that is in our control and by putting in effort, we can make it even better.

At times, we seem to waste too much of our time on things that have already been gone. There’s no point banging our heads on silly things all the time.

You ought to understand that the past is no longer in our hands, and no matter even if we try our best, we cannot travel back in time and fix it anyway. Hence, you should neglect the past and accept it as it is!

?Let it go, and focus on things that matter to your present. Surrender the past as sitting with it would not yield you anything much.

On the other hand, you should always focus on your present and try to make it even more beautiful. Know that you can improve yourself only when you try doing it.?

Never allow your present to go useless. Keep working for it, and things will fall in place all by themselves.

Learn to accept the past, take lessons from all the mistakes that you have made so far, and incorporate those learning in your today.

Once you do so, things will become easier for you. Also, you should be optimistic enough to think about your future and see to things that will make you better down the line. Love yourself for all that you are today, and have faith in your abilities.

Believe in yourself and only when you have trust on your potential, nothing in this whole world can make you lag behind. When you have faith, you start to sense positivity within yourself and that will eventually keep you driving ahead in your life.

Have patience and faith, both these things will help you achieve great things in your life. Faith is that superpower that will motivate you to keep going.

?It gives you a feel that no matter even if you have failed a hundred times in your life, you will succeed, sooner or later.

Something amazing happens when we surrender and just love. We melt into another world, a realm of power already within us.

The world changes when we change, the world softens when we soften. The world loves us when we choose to love the world.

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Thank you?….Love has nothing to do with another person. Love is Truth. Love is Beauty. Love is Self. To know yourself, to surrender to the truth of yourself, is to surrender to love.

Allow your softer, more intuitive, and less dominating feminine qualities to rise to the fore, so that you're surrendering rather than dominating, receiving rather than broadcasting, and loving rather than fighting.?

I think you should start with asking yourself why you have to let go of the person. In the start, you will most likely try to convince yourself that the person was good and it's your fault for whatever happened and I'm paying for both a breakup with your gf/bf or your friend/best friend.

Letting go is always a process and even though it's very painful and you just want to get over it as soon as possible but you gotta go through the process. In this process of 'letting go' of that someone, you find yourself so much more.

I think while letting go you have to connect with yourself to finally reach to the point of understanding it's not your fault.

Do you want to add a word or two?

I think that first, you have to be honest with yourself and acknowledge that it’s going to be a difficult process with both good and bad days.

Sitting with, and processing your emotions in the early stages is important, so that you can focus on the reconstruction and moving on part after. Once you’ve allowed those emotions in and accepted them, you need to let them go.

You replace them by focusing on activities and projects that are meaningful to you… whether they be professional, academic, altruistic, artistic, athletic, etc.

In many ways, you are shifting your perspective… letting go of the idea or possibility of you and this other person together, and replacing it with a solid idea of who you are, your separate and whole identity and the ways in which you can fulfill your goals and live out your passion.

Your comments ……

A couple years ago I pretty much rewired my brain to stop worrying about things I can’t change.

When I was growing up all I ever saw and heard was what everyone was worried about. I knew it was holding me back but I didn’t realize how much until I kicked the habit.

It took a while but that time would have passed regardless and now it’s passed and I feel mentally free and I don’t even feel as negative or anxious as I used to at times.

And feeling that change and still noticing it to this day is delicious.

I just realized the question was asking for we want to let go of.

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