Sunrise, Sunset, and Christmas: Time Marches On
Cheryl Scott
Promoter of community, education, and the human connection. Executive Director of the Bakersfield College Foundation, author of Just+Between+Us newsletter
Did you know the International Space Station crew sees 16 sunrises and sunsets in just 24 hours??
My husband shared this random information with me at the perfect time this weekend, just as I was lamenting to myself how quickly the years are passing. ?The Thanksgiving clean-up was done and normally I’d be looking forward to putting up our Christmas tree and our other decorations in the coming days.?
This time, though, it felt like a daunting task.?Didn’t I just put last year’s “Christmas” away??
Logically, it makes sense that the more sunrises and sunsets (and Christmases) we have under our belt, the shorter each year will feel.?When I was 10 years old, hoping for my first-ever 10-speed bicycle under the tree, one year equaled 10 percent of my life!?Now…well, one year is just a tiny percentage, as I roll into my 56th Christmas.
Not one who lets a little melancholy get in the way of her schedule, I set out to get the job done.?I’m happy to say that I’m now sitting in front of our brightly lit tree, smiling at the stockings hung with care on the fireplace.?But getting here wasn’t a pretty sight.
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If you’re ever feeling a little low and can’t quite put your finger on the reason, might I suggest decorating your Christmas tree??
With each ornament I unwrapped, it became more and more clear just how much I was missing my mom (now gone more than eight years), and also missing our son, Jake, and his girlfriend, Chrissy, who are living in Munich.
Looking back through the ornaments, my thoughts shifted toward the future, wondering what the next year will hold.?With more than one of my nearest and dearest waiting to see what 2023 holds for their health, I’m all too aware that we really don’t know what tomorrow or the next year will look like.
Not surprisingly, I shed a few (hundred?) tears during the process of decorating.?But you know what? ?I think this is our best tree ever!?This tree was not just thrown up in a rush to just “get it done.” ??We have quite the variety of special-memory ornaments plus the more basic bulbs we’ve collected over the years, so each year’s tree looks a little different.
This tree is the perfect combination; a tribute to Christmases past, plus a bright reminder to enjoy the moment, to love on my people (and pups), and to take the time to reflect on what matters during this holiday season.
SVP Member Business Services at Valley Strong Credit Union
1 年Loved your article Cheryl. I was feeling the same way this year but hopeful of what new adventures tomorrow will bring our family.
Founder & CEO @ SAGO Technology | AI & Industry 4.0 Researcher @ MIT | Lecturer @ CSUB
1 年Cheryl, thanks for sharing. Wishing you and your family a wonderful holiday season.
Manager, Large Industrial Accounts at Pacific Gas and Electric Company
1 年Wonderful, heartfelt article and very timely for me. Keep on sharing and enjoying the holiday season. ??
Human Resources - Talent Acquisitions Professional
1 年Thanks for sharing, Cheryl; my wife and I shared the same this weekend. With the boys away, the decorating seemed like a somber affair. We took our time reminiscing over each ornament and decoration that was put up. As the tree and house came together, we reflected on how thankful we were to have many memories of Christmas past and the hope for future celebrations. ?? ?
Executive Territory Account Specialist
1 年I decorated our tree just last night and had so many of the same feelings as you. I still have a small container with our sentimental ornaments to hang. I thought about “finishing” the tree last night with those ornaments but I didn’t. I want to do it slowly. Thank you for this article as it was perfectly timed for me to read this morning. Take care, Cheryl! Merry Christmas ??