Success mostly comes for our attitude

Since I don't think much about the future, I have to listen to a lot from my family. I mainly try to enjoy my work well. As a Human Resource Professional, I have the opportunity to interact with many. It feels good to hang out with people. I have been interested in mixing with people and getting to know people since childhood. We sometimes meet some people in our society or profession whose personality fascinate us much. Since behavior is personality, we can change and enhance our personality if we want to. It is necessary to keep one's work in line with one's own words without understanding useless arguments. Personality is not something to be pretended. Personality automatically emerges for the other.

You may know a lot, but in a meeting or chat you are just going to say your words. As a result, your other friends are making you trifle or they think they are trifle. To belittle oneself means to belittle others but also to belittle oneself. More important than pretending to be yourself is how much you respect others. You will be able to move forward on the path you are capable of, but the thought of having to stay ahead all the time may not be appreciated. With strong real intellect, cleverness and tolerance, one can possess a developed personality despite not having much academic knowledge.

Therefore, it is necessary to practice speaking impartially and without being a source of pity. The main source of personality development is mentality and mentality is formed by conscience and emotions.

A study of Harvard University tells that almost 87% people of the world becomes successful only for their attitude. There are two types of this attitude. Namely: - 1. Re-active Vs 2. Pro-active. A room can be burned with a matchstick and at the same time a matchstick can illuminate a room too. You can drink wine with a glass and you can also consume milk with the same. In the same way a terrorist network can be created with a cellphone and again the necessary communication can be made. So to be pro-active you have to give five things to others. Namely: - 1. Respect 2. Influence 3. Help 4. Gratitude 5. Experience.

Feelings of personality are different. Sometimes we say- he speaks nicely and keeps patience and can easily accept people. Oh! If I could be like him.?