Success Mindset - How to Get One?
Joana Fonseca Orvalho
Career Clarity Coach | Helping Corporate Women Gain Career Clarity and Confidently Advance Toward Success | Professional Facilitator | Bestselling Author
In the journey to your dreams and ambitions, I'm sure you often heard about the importance of having a success mindset.
But what exactly does this mean? And how can you cultivate it in your life?
First of all, let's dissect the word mindset, which is so commonly used. It's important you understand exactly what this means, as the power lies within it:
Mindset is the way your mind is set to view the world.
Interesting, right?
I'll give you an example of two different mindsets (none of which is right or wrong! Just a different point of view):
One of my clients (who is currently dealing with a toxic work environment and feeling lost about what her next career step will look like) told me this the other day: 'Why are all people in London rude? People keep on bumping into me in the street and never apologize.'
I said: 'Interesting, as I think the opposite. I find everyone very kind, as not only people never bump into me, but they also smile when they let me go first (either when I walk or drive).'
Can you see what is happening here?
I view the world as if people are nice, so I pay more attention to those (even though some rude ones might cross my path) and hence that's what I remember the most.
On the other hand, my client, who is going through a rough time, sees the world as mean and rude, so that's all she can see and think of.
Same city, so I would say very similar factual scenarios.
The only difference is our way of seeing it: positive vs. negative mindset.
So, now that you truly understand the meaning of the word mindset, what is SUCCESS MINDSET?
A success mindset is an attitude and set of beliefs that enables you to perceive challenges as opportunities for growth, setbacks as temporary, and failures as valuable learning experiences.
It involves adopting a positive outlook on life, maintaining resilience in the face of obstacles, and staying focused on long-term goals despite adversity.
And now...
How can you cultivate a success mindset?
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1. Embrace Challenges: Instead of shying away from challenges, see them as opportunities for growth.
Embrace the discomfort of stepping outside your comfort zone and learn from each experience.
Always remember that every challenge is an opportunity for growth, and to learn something new.
If you never took those swimming lessons, you'd never learn how to swim!
2. Practice Gratitude: Cultivate an attitude of gratitude by focusing on the positive aspects of your life and accomplishments.
In other words, apply the 'half full' glass lens to your life: no matter what is happening, you still have accomplished a lot in your life and career that you can be proud of.
Celebrate your successes, no matter how small, and acknowledge the progress you've made. This will support you in remaining positive.
3. Learn from Failure: Instead of viewing failure as the end of the road, see it as a stepping stone to success.
The ones that never fail are the ones that never try!
Analyse what went wrong, extract valuable lessons, and use them to refine your approach going forward.
True learnings come from mistakes and not only that, from the way that you bounce back from them!
4. Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself, especially during challenging times.
I always tell my clients: You need to treat yourself with the same kindness, respect, and understanding you would offer a friend facing similar difficulties.
We can be our biggest critics, but to have a success mindset, you need to be able to love and embrace yourself as you are - with all the qualities and limitations you have, as a human being.
Cultivating a success mindset is not about achieving perfection or avoiding failure altogether.
It's about adopting a positive attitude, staying resilient in the face of challenges, and persistently pursuing your goals with determination and grit.
By embracing the principles of positive thinking, resilience, and growth, you can unlock your full potential and achieve success in all areas of your life.
So, dare to dream big, embrace challenges, and cultivate a mindset that sets you up for success.
Remember, the only limits that exist are the ones you place on yourself.
If you'd like to upgrade your mindset and fast-track your career to get the recognition you've been craving, DM or email me the word 'SUCCESS', and let's deep dive into how my framework can help you build and land your career plan.
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