Success looks different for me now...redefining success on my terms
Sky Jarrett
Creator of the Relaxed Hustle Leadership Community of high performing leaders committed to satisfying success | Keynote Speaker | Executive Coach | Facilitator of Team Effectiveness | TEDX Speaker | Retreat Host
Becoming my own boss is not what I thought it would be. I thought it would automatically give me the life of freedom, joy and peace I always craved… but it didn’t.
Why? Because it wasn’t the job, it was me.
I left Accenture as an overachieving Consulting Executive on the path to making partner and carried the same workaholism in to my business. Pulling all-nighters, taking on the most, doing the most. In fact, it was worse because it's MY bottom line. I cared more so I worked more.
The truth is, I was addicted to stress.
Being busy made me feel important and I wore my busyness as a badge of honor. I took pride in overcoming the struggle and defined my worth by my productivity and achievements.
Success for me, as it is for many of us in the western world, was defined by external factors.?
And, I believed it came solely from hard work.
"Nothing worth having comes easy" was the mantra I lived by.?
Success looks different for me now.
Determined to not be the burnt-out entrepreneur repeating the same mistakes of my past, I've spent the last several years studying the latest Science of Success, the Psychology of Peak Performance, the Brain Science of Stress and Happiness to really understand what it takes to sustain high levels of success for the long haul. ?
My research has revealed 3 truths:
?? TRUTH #1 We Must Redefine Success: Success is not just about accumulating wealth, or achieving milestones. Success is about fulfillment, it's about health as much as it's about wealth! And not just physical health but our mental health, the health of our relationships, the strength of our communities.
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?? TRUTH #2 Peak Performance Requires? Balance: Most people think peak performance is about constantly pushing harder. True sustainable success is about our ability to balance stress and recovery.??
?? TRUTH #3 Peak Performance Doesn't Come from Hard Work, it Comes from Smart Habits: Success comes from having a Leadership Operating Model with a success mindset and consistent habits that fuel our focus and optimizes our energy as a time multiplier.?
Let me know in the comments below which of these you resonate with.
I've packaged these and other key learnings into our upcoming New Science of Success Masterclass that I'll be teaching in the coming weeks.?
If you find any of this interesting, I invite you join us.?
In this masterclass, you'll:?
Happy Sunday my love
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Sales Leader @ Avanade/Accenture | Driving Sales and Revenue Growth
2 个月Thanks Sky. I'm excited to learn more in this masterclass. I admire your journey, and look to take the lessons and apply them to my own path.
Talent Management - HR Business Partner - Coach
2 个月Sky - all these truths are right on! My personal favorites are #1) We must redefine success & 3) Peak performance doesn't come from hard work, it comes from SMART habits. Its critical to understand that redefining success is key to one's own hero's journey. Self regulation and the ability to operate in our most beautiful state of being helps us fill the cups of others along the way. These are the type of skills many have to discover on their own through trials and tribulation and should be something that is taught more intentionally - which you are doing. Kudos to you and the work you are doing!
Quality Tech
2 个月Sky Jarrett thank you. I had the opportunity to meet you at a Summit in Tampa and I must say you are awesome. Workaholic "guilty"! Looking forward to your masterclass on New Science of Success.
If you want to stay vital and engaged in your life and work, keep learning. Facilitating learning and creating a space for thinking, reflection and supported action is what changes lives.
2 个月I so appreciate #3 success wisdom. Moving from poor habits to habits that serve your values and purpose is such an important step to embodying integrity. Your practice will carry you!
Diesel Instructor
2 个月Very informative