Strongest people are kind even after world tore them apart

Are you above 50 already? Most of us over 50 know the feeling what it means. But we also know that life can be good again and even better than it was before. Ask anyone to be kind to people in general. That is, ask anyone who is old enough to have screwed things up that completely. Now you don’t really want to know that because you are still brooding over what could have been or even once was and that’s perfectly acceptable, up to a point. Swallow in it as much as you like but that feeling of guilt does not go away.

However, there is a imminent danger point and it’s not suicide. Suicide is more than just danger; it is throwing away the good life that is waiting for you in the future. That will certainly prevent anything good from ever happening to you again. However, there’s another thing you can do which will be almost as destructive of your future happiness.

And that is to become attached to your tragedy and make that the story of your life and make that the story of your life. The temptation is if you do that then you don’t have to ever take a risk again because your story is over your life is over and all you have to do is mourn. Don’t fall into that trap. Be sad for a while and then get going. We all fall on out faces, we all have losses; that’s part of being alive. But part of being alive is also to win and to find new things to be happy about. Every death has the seed of new birth.

But you have decided to be kind at heart and happy in your mind. If you only have the lesser kind of happiness that is true happiness that is based on mere feelings, emotions and moods, you can always get some degrees of it back, but then you can lose it again and again and again because that lesser kind of happiness is only temporary coming and going, not lasting very long, and being unpredictable, uncontrollable, unreliable, and not sustainable.

And if “life is tearing you apart” you will definitely feel bad, maybe even awful, but remember that all such feelings are only subject to change, so your unhappiness will not last forever. Moreover fortunately you have taken responsibility for inner happiness and you have willfully and determinedly chosen to be happiness as your mental state - whoever and however you are now, the amount of “life tearing you apart” can change right your core bein of a happy person inside!!! That is exactly how I myself like exist. I can have times of unhappiness, but through it all, I still wake up every day and go to sleep every night happy inside!

I can really never stop being kind even if life has been unkind to me. Happiness, sadness pleasure, joy, pain or fear, etc all arrive for a limited time and they go away after sometime. Nothing lasts forever is my experience, however by focusing on the same painful experience makes us fixated and grappled with the thought that life is hell, and nothing good will ever come out of it. Its not life that makes us, rather we build our life with the thoughts we carry and the consequent actions we make.

Kindness is just a state of mind in fact everything we seek externally lies within us and our heart gets warm after giving pleasure and happiness to people around us. And all our emotions, memories, feelings, thoughts, desires, pleasures and pain all lie within and together they contribute into making who we are. Life will unfold by itself nonstop at the same pace, its we who decide how we want our life to be. Let thoughts wander alone for sometime and they’ll make you feel miserable enough to make you feel sad and helpless. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit #ks1100articles