Storytelling and self-esteem

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In my career as a coach I have encountered numerous clients that seemed confident at first. But that was just a mask they put on for everybody else to see.

Do you know how I figured that out?

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You may say that my role as a coach is to listen. And your role as the person getting coached is to tell me about everything that is happening in your life. This is only part true.

These clients I am telling you about were not only telling me about their lives. They were telling me about other people’s lives. About their life in the past. So, naturally, I stopped them. My role is to guide you towards the future, not to find out everything about your past.

When this happens, it means that the person standing before me is hiding from the truth, avoiding the answer and themselves.

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Many of my clients appear very confident on the outside. But when they feel comfortable enough to open up in our coaching sessions, they let me discover that they actually lack self-esteem. They believe they are not worthy of their lives, that they do not deserve the good things that are happening. They believe they are just playing a role and that, in fact, they are not as good as people think. So they decide to avoid facing themselves. Maybe out of fear, maybe because they are not ready.

You deserve to be free of this burden. You can enjoy life and you can improve your self-esteem. How? Through coaching!

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