A story from one of my friend
HongXia Xu
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Is it no longer possible to produce noble children from a poor family?
Are young people becoming more and more involute?
Should grassroots lie flat or should they struggle?
I have been asked these questions by young people younger than me since I started working, and they are very confused.
I am 28 years old, born in a small town from Sichuan, my family does not have much money, my family also went bankrupt when I was a freshman haha.
I went to the second Mianyang Middle School in Sichuan Province for high school, and then to Beijing University for my undergraduate degree.
I seem to be the standard poor family out of the noble son, and like I am very positive energy, all the way in the struggle, maybe everyone wants to get some energy from me.
But really, really, want to say that it's really hard for the poor family, and it's especially hard for the grassroots, and it's especially hard for young people nowadays.
When I was in Beijing University, there was a group of students, I don't mean any harm, I just want to say that this group of students is quite excellent, they are from NPC Central School, they are from Nanjing Foreign Language colleague, anyway, they are foreign language schools and key middle schools in the first-tier cities of Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Shenzhen and Hangzhou.
They are the pride of the sky like existence, good English, more resources, high vision, and themselves also so hard, desperately internship, some NPC freshman year began the internship, some people desperately study, grades first, read books all night.
I was also confused, how do I do, i am not so good as their study, my internship is not as good as them, than the overall ability is not as good as them, everything is not as good as them.
I seem to be confused, also lying flat over, first year and second year in Colleague, in fact I have been in class to play computer, after class to play games, very confused very empty, feel I am in Peking University, a grassroots in Peking University, why so ordinary, so bland.
Haha we were freshmen at Peking University, the words circulating, is the first year of Peking University, fire prevention anti-hanging, is worried about these around the country, especially like me, the grassroots iron son, used to their own very good, and good grades, they are not used to, and then things, looking for death.
I then the first semester of my sophomore year, almost failed English, I asked myself, Liu Si, do you want to work hard, do you want to try? It doesn't seem to make sense to keep lying around.
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So I began to toss and turn, study hard, crazy internship, and then later my inspirational story, I started my own business, I took financing, oh have some success.
Answer this topic. Do poor people's children have to lie flat, do they have to work hard?
I think the answer to this question is that poor children can only work 10,000 times harder to have a good life.
Young kids will ask me.
Do you always succeed after working hard?
No, unfortunately, no, success after hard work is a kind of chance, is 99% of luck + 1% of effort.
Sometimes you really work hard, but you should not forget that people who have more resources, stronger ability, and higher vision than you, actually work as hard as you, or even harder than you.
I want to say not to encourage people to inwardly roll, but to say that poor people's children really can't help but work hard, my family, my parents, and my life, all need me to work harder.
Effort is what gives us hope for the future. The so-called class crossing, without effort, is not even a possibility.
So I often do not quite tolerate to see the current small pots, 00 after lying, I really do not tolerate.
I would like to ask, is the life of the inward roll is not worth living, is it worth living a flat life, there is meaning, there is a way out again.
Poor people's children can only inwardly rolled, can only struggle to be... okay ....struggle to be possible, okay, not struggle even hope can not see???
Type here to cry.