Stop trying to get what you want by force
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Stop trying to get what you want by force

I have been a hard-working over-achiever for as long as I can remember.

This comes from, I have realized, a deep-rooted belief that I am not worthy or lovable and that I have to constantly prove my relevance.

So, if you're one of my hard-working folks, this one's for you:

Stop trying to get what you want by forcing how it happens.

Forcing (manipulating, trying too hard, etc.) speaks of a lack of trust. Mostly in yourself.

Instead, decide to trust in your higher self. In your creator.?

I know, I know. All my corporate folks out there, I hear you! But this is not some spiritual woo-woo. We all receive help from outside of ourselves. You can call it whatever you want. You can call it God, or the universe, or infinite intelligence (and, by the way, successful people know this).

However, knowing that you are helped doesn’t mean you won’t have to work for things.

But when you stop depending on your own addiction to do it all alone - or by the help of others in a way that’s predictable - you free yourself from stress, fear, and lack.

You higher self knows better. She knows that she can rely on an infinite intelligence and be freed from relying on assurances and a constant need for more.?

Trusting in the creator within is freedom from all other codependencies. It’s also the only route to real intimacy with other people.?

Check out this short video I posted about this.

Does this resonate? If not let me know and I will expand!

–Unni

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PS: this was inspired by The Artist’s Way, which I’m working myself through right now.?

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