Stop Trying To Be A Better You

Stop “trying” to be a better you It’s causing resistance It is fear Meaning you are trying to be other than what you are is because you are afraid that what you are, is not good enough. And so what you resist persists. And therefore it’s a self fulfilling prophecy. You will never feel worthy So you keep trying to be better. And have more. But it never fulfills you. Because it’s a never ending cycle of chasing your tail. STOP . Stop it now You are already fulfilled. It’s just you looked outside and you are not there.

You see, even in the picture above, when I asked for a friend to do some professional photos (turns out Wolfgang isnt such a great photographer , haha) , I thought, I should be at a better location, have new clothes etc. And then I looked around. I had all I needed right here at home. Just forgot to pay attention.

You know, I have spent my life studying. Studying health, computers, business, management and sales strategies. Studying coaching. Studying the mind, the body, conspiracy theory, love, fear, the world, health, medicine, critical analysis of studies that study, quantum physics, god, Jesus !! Books, webinars, courses, programs, qualifications. It’s been never ending. Relentless. And I realised that no one knows anything. They are all still studying. Still searching. Funny how there is no right answer yet everyone is right

And so it dawned on me. I was looking for all the answers outside. And they are not there. No. Not even with god. My study then turned inside. But I was still using tools and strategies etc to see me and study me WTF. I have been relentless in fine tuning me. Mastering me. Becoming a Master in NLP, coaching etc What for ? To be a better version of me ? To prove what? That I can pass an exam? For validation of me? So people can look at me and think I know anything? I thought i would feel successful if I had all I had set out to achieve. So why didnt I feel successful?

Then I realised what success was. A progressive realisation of a worthy ideal, said Napolean Hill. Ahhhh, I am the worthy idea in the mind of god. Ideas never leave their source. I am progressively realising who I am!!!

I asked myself this question....... Did something not create this idea of me in perfection. Who am I to change it ? That’s why people are not good versions of themselves sometimes because they are trying to squeeze themselves into a box that isn’t theirs. You didn’t come from a box. You are not a box. You are infinity itself. There is nothing to do but be you. You are perfect.

I remember saying one time when I felt my body trying to go ahead of me when I couldn’t go anywhere, stuck in a traffic jam, “Where are you going Sheena. You are already here.”

And when I became a Top 10% premier performer with a global pharma company in sales, it was because for the first time, I stopped listening to everyone else, and did things my way - the Sheena way. Hey presto - results.

So you see this personal development is rubbish. You already know how to be you but we have fallen into the trap of being what the world decides is good and worthy. We can never be worthy in this world. We follow someone elses path of success and wonder why it didnt work for us.

So be in this world. Not of it “I am not the me. I think I am. I am not the me you think I am. I am the me I think you think I am. So if it’s got to be. It’s got to be me. So I better find out who me is !!! “

I heard it said once. The whole thing of the journey of enlightenment is that you will find yourself right where you have always been. Right as you are. You never left the kingdom of heaven. How could you. You are it. You can never be not with god or out of alignment. But you can forget, and so you suffer. It would be like the sunray could be separated from the sun. It would cease to exist. And you were never born so you can never die. Einstein said, energy cannot be created nor destroyed.

So now what? Now I am not studying me anymore. I don’t need a book to know me. I have been experiencing myself for 53 years. I am loving me. Loving me just the way I am I am right in all I do. You see. Most people know this. But there is that 1% niggle of doubt. And doubt takes you out every time. Now after this journey. I don’t care . And so that makes me right. No resistance you see. Good luck. Bad luck. It is what it is. One day I may be crying. The next laughing. But I don’t care I love and accept me. The “I Am ness“ of me Being right in me feels good. It is the Unconditional love I was seeking It’s here. And I will keep my guard or perhaps not bother. Who cares . The less resistance I have, the better.

Alan Watts was right. "Be a scoundrel". Just be right in you. Pure love. Pure joy This is success Decide on what you want and it’s yours Common thought. It’s mine End of. And you will be led there. Perhaps kicking and screaming. Perhaps laughing and in joy. Who cares. You will have it. Because you saw it. It’s already yours. For you are everything anyway.

"You would not have sought it had you not already found it" Pascal. And if you have identified the goal and its already achieved, dont you think the universe would have already achieved the how as well? Doesnt it say in the Bible - Ask Believe Receive? Nowhere did it say, work your tiny ass off Sheena ;)

Bob Proctor was totally spot on. “What do you want”. That is the only prerequisite. And then walk in that direction as if you couldn’t fail, and the how will show up. It will be obvious and you will be inspired to act.

But I know. You have too much crap in the way Which causes even just 0.1% doubt. And what I have learned is. It’s either 100% or nothing. There is no middle ground. Any resistance will give you the opposite. This is why not caring and unconditional love works so well. And so what appears to be a journey is undertaken .

If you would like to have a shortened version of this realisation If your way isn’t working. Try mine. Then you will find yours Then you will find gods. To realise there is nothing to do be or have anyway . Or perhaps you can go straight there. If you can. Fabulous. Faith born of knowledge is relentless. Blind faith will crumble at the first hurdle Come see yourself with me It’s wonderful. I promise But don’t believe me . What do I know. You have to experience it yourself.

6 months. Immediate impact Life long application Or take the long way like I did . It’s all a game Enjoy

Message me if you are ready for a No More Excuses conversation.

You Deserve The Best

Have a fabulous day, Sheena Cantar