Stop Talking About Gender Inclusion—Start Recognizing Women's Excellence

The Problem with Gender Inclusion Framing

When discussing "gender inclusion" in leadership, we risk framing success as an act of charity—a seat offered at the table as a gesture rather than a recognition of earned merit.

But here's the uncomfortable truth: Women don't need inclusion; they need recognition.

Moving Beyond Inclusion to Recognition

If we're serious about empowering women's leadership and recognizing women's excellence, the conversation must move beyond inclusion to one of acknowledgment and excellence.

Why? Because women already possess the skills, vision, and strategic thinking required to lead. They don't need to be "included"; they need to be seen for their abilities, achievements, and leadership potential—regardless of ethnicity, color, or culture. Women are overlooked because they are women, plain and simple, across sectors and geographies.

The Real Issue: Tokenism vs. Meritocracy

Too often, "gender inclusion" is presented as a solution to leadership imbalance. However, if not handled correctly, inclusion can become a box-checking exercise that undermines the value of women's contributions. This approach perpetuates the idea that women need a special pass to access spaces where men are judged on merit alone.

But what if we challenged this mindset?

What if, instead of discussing inclusion, we shifted the focus to recognition—to celebrating and promoting women who have already proven themselves as excellent leaders, demonstrating strength, strategic vision, and the ability to innovate?

Where We Should Be Heading: A Shift to Competence-Based Leadership

The future of leadership isn't about creating more programs or initiatives for inclusion. It's about creating systems where excellence, critical diversity of thinking, and competence are the only standards that matter—where women's achievements and presence are recognized, not their gender.

Critical diversity of thinking means embracing diverse perspectives that challenge the status quo, enabling innovative solutions and more decisive leadership.

So, what's the solution?

1. Stop framing leadership opportunities around quotas. Quotas can be a starting point, but they're not the end goal. The focus must be on creating environments where #performance, #vision, and #strategy determine who rises to the top, not demographic representation.

2. Build leadership palettes based on strengths. Every woman has unique skills and attributes that form her leadership color. Real empowerment comes from helping women discover and amplify these strengths—such as strategic foresight or problem-solving—rather than conforming to a mold. This is how true leadership presence is built.

3. Shift the narrative to recognition. Instead of promoting gender inclusion, focus on recognizing talent—whether a woman or a man. The standard must be merit-based success across the board.

4. Start Early: Develop Leadership Skills and Strengths in Young Girls: Support for women must begin long before they enter the workforce. We create environments where young girls can become confident leaders by providing early leadership training, mentorship, and opportunities to build strength and strategic thinking. Elevating capacities early ensures they are fully equipped to demonstrate their excellence in leadership when they step into leadership roles.

Women Deserve More Than Inclusion—They Deserve Recognition

When women are recognized for their achievements and potential, they don't just sit at the table; they transform the conversation. Leadership isn't about filling a quota or checking a box;—it should be about creating lasting impact through meaning and leadership excellence.

Embrace Unique Leadership Strengths

As women, we can craft our unique leadership palettes, showcasing the skills, vision, and presence that set us apart. Recognition comes not from fitting into a mold but from embracing our strengths. It's time for leadership to reflect this truth, where merit, not inclusion, is the path to success.

The Real Question: How Will You Claim Your Space?

So, instead of asking how to include more women in leadership, the real question is: How will you claim your space by demonstrating your excellence and reshaping how women's leadership excellence is recognized in your organization?

The world is watching—let your actions catalyze the change we all need.?Leaders and organizations must create systems that recognize and reward merit, ensuring that excellence, not gender,?drives success.

And remember to always carry your own colors!

Saliha Oukaci

The Impression Architect

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