STOP seeking approval from others! ??
Tony Fields
Helping Ambitious Men Achieve Peak Performance Without Compromise ?? | Over 100 Men Coached | Award Winning Performance Expert | National Conference Speaker ??
2 ? years ago I did something so out of character and I told no one! I set up my business when my wife Melissa was 6 months pregnant and she wasn’t working. ?
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Do you have a tendency to overthink things?? Perhaps you go over decisions in your head, and decide that you need MORE evidence to justify your actions????
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Maybe you convince yourself that LOGICALLY things are just fine. You should be HAPPY...?
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But all you end up doing is putting off key decisions. ?
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If you have had a corporate career, then this has probably compounded the problem.?There may be committees to run your ideas past.? You may need to get “sign off”.????
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It starts with ACCEPTING that all you are doing is making the problem worse. ?
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?? Imagine being DECISIVE.?
?? Imagine being YOURSELF.?
?? Imagine being in CONTROL and doing what you really WANT.?
?? Imagine backing your own judgement!!!?
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For years I was guilty of seeking recognition and approval.? I would care deeply what others would think.???
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And then I discovered this was one of the key things holding me back.?
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And so 2 ? years ago when I decided to set up my business, I did something completely out of character.?? I did NOT seek approval from anyone else... ??
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I set up this business when my wife was expecting our 4th child, and if I had run this past friends and colleagues, what do you think they would have said….???
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All this would do is create was SELF DOUBT and so the only person I told was Melissa. And the rest is history.? My business has gone from strength to strength ever since. ??
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The way to stop overthinking is to MAKE a DECISION???
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If you have found yourself putting off KEY decisions and there is a professional change you would love to make then it is not too late to register for my LinkedIn LIVE this Friday ????
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To register for this free event follow the link in the comments of my LinkedIn post from today.
One of the subjects I will be covering is the first ACTIONABLE next steps you need to take.???????
Helping Ambitious Men Achieve Peak Performance Without Compromise ?? | Over 100 Men Coached | Award Winning Performance Expert | National Conference Speaker ??
1 年If you want to stop pleasing others and to start living life to the full NOW, you are going to love my next LinkedIn LIVE event this Friday. You can find more via the link below ??. https://www.dhirubhai.net/events/findyourwhy-the3stepstoachievep7112152649239519232/theater/