Stop the Gossip: How Leaders Can Shut Down Workplace Toxicity

Stop the Gossip: How Leaders Can Shut Down Workplace Toxicity

Gossip is a damaging behavior that destroys trust, divides teams, and fuels toxicity. Yet, despite knowing the harm it causes, gossip is still prevalent in many healthcare settings.

As leaders, we need to stop normalizing gossip and start shutting it down. If you allow gossip to spread unchecked, you’re essentially giving it your approval. What you allow is what will continue.

Strategies for Leaders:

  • Set the expectation – Make it clear that gossip is not tolerated. In staff meetings, say: “We don’t talk about people; we talk TO people.”
  • Call it out in the moment – When you hear gossip, respond with: “Let’s not have this conversation without them here.” A simple redirection can stop it in its tracks.
  • Be the role model – Leaders must lead by example. If you engage in gossip (even unintentionally), you give others permission to do the same.
  • Encourage direct communication – If an employee has an issue with a colleague, encourage them to address it professionally rather than venting behind their back. Offer guidance if needed.

Gossip isn’t just harmless chatter - it’s a form of workplace incivility that erodes teamwork and morale. Leaders have the power to stop it, but only if we take action.

How do you handle gossip in your workplace? Let us know in the comments.

Barry A. M.

Vice President, Enterprise Perioperative Services | Clinical Leadership Expert

3 天前

I’ve used this technique. “Why are you sharing this with me? Are you looking for me to get involved? Are you looking to make “John doe” feel bad? “What’s the end game here’s?”

Lori Seymore

Assistant Nurse Manager | Maternal Child Health

4 天前

This was very well put. I am going to use this language as a leader in my daily routine.

Love this! Finally someone else notices! I got bullied for not entertaining the gossip that was being spread around about a new CNA. I even complained to my supervisor stating that I felt like I was back in highschool and if you go against the gang even by not talking about it at all then ur the next target, I felt with it for a few months and continued to not respond or entertain it thinking it would die out because I know the truth about myself and I’m there for the clients not for the staff but the bullies took it too far and stated I came into work drunk? I’m sorry but I don’t drink ever and my parents passed when I was 10 from drinking, management believed the bullies when told the next day I was disgusted!

Jamie R.

DNP, FNP, Educator, Mentor, SME with a focused passion for improving the health of women and children through high-quality care. Experienced clinician and educator in family, prevention/wellness med, with primary care.

4 天前

Useful tips

Jerry Soucy

Chief Concierge at Concierge aux Mourants - Concierge to the Dying; "the Don Rickles of hospice!"

5 天前

nurses gossiping about another nurse is the least of it but certainly how worse behavior starts, like mobbing that can escalate to violating civil rights https://www.antiracismnursing.org/blog/update-magnet-tm-hospital-will-go-in-trial-in-federal-court-for-violating-the-civil-rights-of-a-black-nurse

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