Stay in Your Lane

When you are concerned about what others will think or how they may react, you are not in your lane - you are playing small. You are in an anxiety state. Nothing you want comes from being in this state.

I believe there are three lanes in life. My lane.Your lane. God’s/the Universe’s lane. Our growth is to practice staying in our lane. Not giving over to the fear part of our brain (ego/amygdala). Notice. Breathe. Come within. Love self on the journey. Love God/Universe. Love others. The ego wants you to get out of your lane to fix, fight, or control what is not your place to be in.

For this month of October, will you just notice when you are out of your lane? You may be anxious, sad, angry, or frustrated. All of these emotions let you know that you are in your car, driving in someone else's lane...their journey, their destination. Steer back to your lane, and stay in your car, to enjoy creating your most beautiful journey and destination. What you focus on during your drive will create the type of journey you have. One of joy, peace, and wonder - or one of fear, dissatisfaction, and defensiveness.

Fix your mind on and enjoy what is good right now. Appreciate. Love. Look for the very next exquisite space to dwell in. Experiencing your most desired route requires that you hold fast to your lane.

Joy to you!

Xxoo Debra

Exquisite Leader. Exquisite Life. 

P.S. - Self awareness is the key to going deeper and understanding yourself and your patterns. Patterns that help you achieve success, and patterns that keep you from what you most want. On November 12th, I'm hosting a digital retreat designed to help you know yourself better and discover these patterns. For more information, click here to learn more.