Starting the 'me journey'

So many questions pop up in life when you want to start a life journey accommodating your individuality. I would like to call this journey 'me journey'

This journey can happen when you are a 'mature adult' or want to go to the next version of yourself!

Most people never start because they fear unraveling the unknown. It is a fact that all have to start this journey, as our life is a valuable gift. Life with an affinity for a learned journey is essential for a happy life.

So, what needs to be done is to know yourself in totality, including - the infinitesimal possibilities, the leverageable, the constraints, attitudes, skills, personality, the learnable, the unlearnable, self-limitations, and your co-existence with the broader outer world

It is very sad to see people who start it right but never stop for a while to look back and realize the spirit of life. They never sustain the essence of themselves and dwell in what I call ' the Rev 0 version' of themselves. They lose their self to the unrealistic self-ego and wade away.

The most important question is where do I start?

Yes. That is what brings sustainability to your 'me journey'. Whether you fail or win is not the question. It is the sustainability that matters most.

This question of where leads you to the attitudes that you have to develop to maintain a strong foundation to rely on.

For me, the foundation is based on five pillars. calmness, endurance, resilience, focus, and dedication.

Calmness - It is like the strong root on which the tree of your personal development grows. It is not a weakness. But the impeccable mark of- confidence, flexibility, adaptability, empathy, and leadership.

Endurance - Pebbles with pleasant outers and a strong core give a perfect picture of endurance with strength. The core values improve and the ghostly outer boundaries of you get smothered properly, with an attitude of endurance.

Resilience - You and the world around move on as we always see the immense possibilities of the big picture of individuals and society. Such an undying attitude for the joy of living makes you slide through life easily.

Focus- You will get what you work for. So having a customized focus based on your individuality is more important than having fancy / borrowed goals

Dedication- That is the spirit of your actions. A strong dedication indicates inseparable love rather than an emotion or liking for anything.

So, build on these pillars first for a strong, sustainable, and customized 'me journey' .

P. KRISHNA KUMAR