Stagnation to Liberation
Leemei Tan-Boisgillot
Global Transformation Strategist ? Coach (ICF ACC) ? Award-Winning Cookbook Author ? 3x??LinkedIn Top Voice ? Multilingual ? Driving Change Across Borders: Singapore, Hong Kong, London, Perth, KL
I confided in her, my voice laced with vulnerability, as I found myself entangled in a web of indecision. In the quiet moments of solitude, a deluge of memories, regrets, and relentless uncertainty washed over me, drowning me in doubt about the next steps to take.
We engaged in extensive conversations, exploring the depths of my inner turmoil. It was during these conversations that I shared a glimmer of hope - a routine I had devised to regain some semblance of control in my life. Yet, I confessed that maintaining this routine was far from easy. The echoing emptiness would creep back in, threatening to engulf me once more.
As time passed, I realised I couldn't stay in this state of confusion forever. I needed to find the strength to make a decision and face the challenges ahead. With strong determination, I began a journey of self-discovery and bravery. Each step was a purposeful move toward freedom, a break from the overwhelming confusion. It happened gradually, one step at a time, but each step brought me closer to clarity and a sense of purpose.
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"Vulnerability is not winning or losing; it's having the courage to show up and be seen when we have no control over the outcome." - Brené Brown
I once mentioned the word vulnerability. Different people see it differently. Some think it's a negative word, like being weak or easily hurt. Others see it in a more positive way. They view vulnerability as a source of strength, a way to be real and connect with others.
To some, vulnerability means taking a risk and being open to challenges, even if it means stepping out of your comfort zone. But from a positive perspective, vulnerability is about being honest about who you are, flaws and all. This honesty helps you connect with others and have real relationships.
So, vulnerability can make people feel different things, but it all comes down to how we see and accept it in our lives. It can be a way to become stronger and grow, leading to more meaningful and real experiences, if we decide to view it that way.
How do you perceive vulnerability? Has it been a source of strength or challenge for you? I invite you to share your thoughts and experiences.
Global Transformation Strategist ? Coach (ICF ACC) ? Award-Winning Cookbook Author ? 3x??LinkedIn Top Voice ? Multilingual ? Driving Change Across Borders: Singapore, Hong Kong, London, Perth, KL
1 年Embracing vulnerability is a journey we all embark on, and it's through these shared experiences that we can find strength and connection.