Stagecoach Etiquette.
Travel by stagecoach was not for the faint of heart. It could be a long and grueling journey. It was very rough compared to our modern travel by train, plane or bus. And most would agree that travel today can be a struggle.
Some stagecoach companies had three classes. First class rode all the way; second class had to get out and walk on steep grades; third class passengers not only had to walk, but also push on the hills. Regardless of your class, everyone had to endure the lack of sleep, bad food and the elements. A lot like travel is today? So here are a few suggestions from yesteryear for successful stagecoach travel. And maybe these simple American wisdoms offer us some insight for our travel and discourse.
- "Don’t smoke a strong pipe inside, especially early in the morning and spit on the leeward side of the coach.”
- “Never attempt to fire a gun or pistol while on the road; it may frighten the team and the careless handling and cocking of the weapon makes nervous people nervous.”
- “Don’t discuss politics or religion nor point out places on the road where horrible murders have been committed if delicate women are among the passengers.”
- “Don’t swear; do not lop over on your neighbor when sleeping. Don’t ask how far it is to the next station until you get there.”
- “In very cold weather, abstain entirely from liquor while on the road; a man will freeze twice as quick while under its influence.”
- “Don’t grease your hair before starting or dust will stick there in sufficient quantities to make a respectable ‘tater’ patch.”
- “When the driver asks you to get out and walk, do it without grumbling.”
- “If a team runs away, sit still and take your chances; if you jump, nine times out of ten you will be hurt.”
- “Don’t imagine for a moment you are going on a picnic; expect annoyance, discomfort and some hardships. If you are disappointed, thank heaven.”
We still share that American stagecoach today. Our ancestors knew this and passed on the golden rule. So please remember to be kind, everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. Our American frontier spirit will live on...