Spirit going in the 'after-life' also suffers

Yes, in other word, the mourning period on either side is called “shock period”. The soul or spirit after get separated from the biological body, undergoes a period of shock in disbelief of the reality. The soul has long been associated with the body since embodiment from birth. Soul is non physical and according to me it the extension of the “dark energy” of the universe. Only three things are present in this universe. “Dark energy” roughly 68%, “dark matter” around 27% and everything ever observed in our instruments, all normal matters,remains less than 5% Dark Energy.

Soul has no weight nor it is made of any unknown particle so it cannot be a “normal matter” or a “dark matter”. It should be an extension of that “dark energy”. Soul is not a separate unit as it is an energy that cannot be separated, rather it can be “extended”. This dark energy is the cause for the big bang birth of this universe and still expanding universe. Soul has two ends, one that traced back to the primary source or “the Supreme soul” and other end to that particular human body. Technically it can be called as “parental bond”. One is the “parent bond” and the other is the “child bond”. One is the input source of energy and the other one is the output energy.

That energy is called “the sense of belonging” as they are from the same source. Religion says that the Supreme soul is “blissful” in nature. “Blissfulness” is nothing but “love” and love is nothing but “the sense of belonging”. That sense of belonging or love is the energy flow that lives in every human as soul and during their lifetime they use the “human body” as “the medium to express this love”. And after the biological separation of the body or death, the soul undergoes a period of shock where it loses it's body medium to express their love to their loved ones. Their loved ones may be parents, life partner, children or any human with whom they share “the sense of belonging” during their lifetime.

After death, they mourn, get disturbed, shocked and search for the medium to communicate with their loved ones. The mourning or shock period varies from person to person. It depends on how well they could understand the reality of body separation. They still carry the sensations of their deceased body. To understand in a simple way, we feel the sensation of our footwear for few minutes even after removing it. So does the soul would feel the body sense even after they get separated.

We are constantly looking for answers that make sense to us in 3-D when the person/spirit has transitioned into multidimensional reality and all that that implies. First of all, none of what I have to say is from a religious perspective. Religions have a tendency to separate people. Those who ardently follow a particular religion are necessarily skeptical of those who follow another; when in reality we all agree that we are created by the same God and we all experience death in the same way, though the causes may differ.

I have worked and talked with spirits for more than 30 years and I have learned some things during that time. If you are ensconced in a particular religion, I have no desire to interfere with your beliefs in any way. Simply look on all of this as the ramblings of an unenlightened heretic. However, in my experience, those who pass on fall into two categories. Those who choose to go into the Light and those who choose to remain earthbound. What I have learned is that the journey of a lifetime does not end until the spirit once again goes into the Light. Once there you move into all the dimensions that are, and no longer have such a limited view of who and what you are.

Anyone that you have ever loved, you still love, but there is so much more. You see the Earth and those on it as players on a limited stage with a very limited awareness. They think of themselves as little more than corporeal beings that might live into their 90s if they are lucky. And yet, the life force, the animating energy is the multidimensional soul, not the 3-D body that remained on Earth. Think of the body as a vehicle that allows you to move around in 3-D space and time.

With this new expanded awareness you also come to realize that you have had many lifetimes and the spouse, children and relatives you left behind are actually relatives that you have had before, though their relationship with you was different then. Most of all, you learn that no one dies; you simply transition into another way of being. Even though you have moved into multidimensionality, the three that you have always been so fond of are part of that, so your family is still present in a very real way.

There are also those, who, for one reason or another, have not chosen to go into the light. Dying is a very simple thing to do. In fact, it is so simple that many do not even realize that they have transitioned, especially if their demise was accidental or they did not see it coming. To them, “dying” is like removing a jacket, nothing else changes. You still think and process your environment the way that you always have, except that you notice there are some anomalies. For as many people as stay behind, there are that many reasons for the choice. Some indeed, can’t stand the thought of being separated from their families. Some, because of misperceptions about the benevolence of God, believe that they will be judged and punished if they go into the light.

But parents never ever leave their kids.. In any form.. With or without body.. Souls are bonded with their kids..Try my method..Preparing food for her. Wearing her dress or buying her new dress. take your selfie pic.. You can resemble her. Talk to her in open air without inhibitions. Don't change or dispose any of the materials or things which your mom uses. Keep her room lively as when she was with her body. Play the music or TV shows she prefers. It's not you are living with her memories..Believe that she is living her extended life without body..Stay strong... Check if you have both the bonds satisfied.. Balance it..Life is a mind game….You can make it… Not to prove others…But to prove yourself.. Your self…That self is nothing but your spirit or soul according to me..That will bond to your mom's soul..It's by nature law..She will be with you..

For a normal human he should be satisfied or bonded or should have these two bonds.. Parenting bond - - - - bond with parents or parenting authority..Kid or child bond - - - - bond with their kids or those who take care..It's like you get your love from one person and give your love to other person..What You receive and what you give. Parenting bond or love is the primary love or bond we receive..The same parenting love or bond we give to our kid or someone we love..According to me, couple relationship in it's core sense equated to parenting bond mutually.. they care their partners like a kid or mother..Will give more information in some other space. Aum Namah Shivay