Speak With Purpose: Elevating Your Leadership Through Words

I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about the power of words. It’s something my father always reminded me of—how what we say reflects what’s in our hearts. That lesson has stuck with me, even though I can’t say I’ve always lived up to it.

The Bible teaches, “Let no corrupt talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up.” It’s a simple idea, but not always easy to follow. Over the years, I’ve learned that your words can be your greatest strength or your biggest weakness. They reveal who you are and shape how others see you.

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Conversations Solve Problems

Let me share something I’ve noticed time and again: most problems, big or small, can be solved by having the right conversation. I can’t count how many times I’ve asked someone, “Have you talked to them about it?” and the answer was, “No.”

We avoid hard conversations because they make us uncomfortable. But the truth is, avoiding them only makes the problems worse. Sitting down and speaking openly with someone—whether it’s a colleague, a client, or a friend—has a way of clearing the air. And when it’s done thoughtfully, it almost always leads to a better understanding.

It doesn’t have to be complicated. Just start the conversation.

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The Cost of Careless Words

There’s another side to this, though—words spoken carelessly can do just as much harm as silence. A poorly timed joke, an offhand comment, or speaking out of anger can create wounds that are hard to heal.

I’ve made my fair share of mistakes here. I’ve said things in the heat of the moment that I wish I could take back. But I’ve also learned to slow down. To think before I speak. And, most importantly, to take ownership when I mess up.

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Breaking Bad Habits

Bad language habits creep in so easily. It starts with a bit of cussing to fit in or making jokes you think are harmless. Before long, they become second nature. But the truth is, they hurt more than you realize—sometimes hurting the people around you, and sometimes hurting your own reputation.

If this sounds familiar, don’t beat yourself up. Just start catching yourself. When you slip up, stop, take a breath, and make the decision to do better next time. Little by little, you’ll break the habit.

“Let no corrupt talk come out of your mouths, but only such that is good for building up.” (Ephesians 4:29)

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Words That Build?

It’s not just about avoiding harmful words. It’s about using the right ones. Words can tear down, but they can also build up. They can encourage someone who’s struggling, inspire someone to keep going, or show appreciation in ways actions alone can’t.

Simple phrases like, “I’m proud of you,” or, “I’m here for you,” carry a weight that can’t be measured. In leadership, these words are everything. They create trust, loyalty, and connection.

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The Role of Gratitude

One of the best uses of your words is gratitude. I don’t just mean saying “thank you” out of habit—I mean really taking the time to recognize someone for what they’ve done or who they are.

I’ve seen what happens when leaders genuinely thank their teams. It’s transformative. People feel valued, seen, and motivated to give their best. And that kind of energy is contagious.

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Words Shape Your Legacy

Here’s the thing I remind myself of often: the words we speak outlive us. They leave an impression long after the moment has passed.

People may not remember every decision you made or every project you worked on, but they will remember how you made them feel. And that’s what your words do—they leave a mark.

As you go about your day, think about the kind of mark you want to leave. Are your words building people up? Are they creating clarity and trust? Or are they leaving something behind that you’d rather take back?

You have the power to make your words count. Use them wisely.

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Jim

About Jim Kirk:

Jim Kirk, Chief Creative Officer of Corporate Magic, brings over 40 years of experience in event production. He has led significant projects for global brands like Coca-Cola, IBM, Mazda, and Berkshire Hathaway. Corporate Magic has played a central role in producing iconic events, including the Dallas Cowboys Thanksgiving halftime shows and the lead-up to Super Bowl XLV.

Early in his career, Jim made his mark by producing music for American Top 40 and American Country Countdown, along with creating jingles for various radio and television stations around the world. Later, as creative director at TM Productions, he oversaw the production of over 6,500 commercials and station IDs. Jim’s expertise lies in blending creativity with strategic vision, making him a trusted leader in the world of corporate events.

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