The space you occupy in others' heart

Everybody knows a different version of you, and may like certain qualities which others may not, and vice versa. So there's no tried and tested recipe for it. All I'd advise is never try hard to impress someone. If a person is into you, s/he will like you even with all your flaws and foibles. All in all, it should just be an effortless, organic process. First of all it should be known that we want unconditional relationship. But truth is this every relations are based on conditions. It is reality. All we have to accept it. Unless we don't get something.we don't make relationship. Even we believe in God or worship God because there is an emotional or spiritual or other types of profit.

Always see in your relation what is level of profit means the relationship is based upon what. Is it physical, emotional, economical, spiritual or it is combination of all four. Then if you want make place in someone heart. First try to listen them. See what can u contribute in his/her life. If he/she ask then contribute or if it is needed then only. Otherwise it may go wrong, it has to be in right time, place and action. The most special thing is that be happy with your life. Try to improve your life quality not only emotionally but also spiritually. It will set a new direction to live life.

Now if you haven't happiness inside you. Anywhere u will not find it in this world .don't make relationship from anyone to get happiness,your relation should be expression of happiness. Try to be loyal with self, respect yourself only then you can respect others. The root of Institution of love is honesty, being you is the best you should and ever could do, if the other understands the ‘Way’ of your existence, you shall be accepted, or else finding ways to woo will lead to temporary pleasure but abundance of discomfort in future, because that wont be you. “Love is an Energy that brings out your true nature and cherish it, Love is growth and comfort”-Barkha.

It is a tough one in today’s world. You don’t know how many masks each is wearing? But, still the best approach would be through honesty and love. Being aware of the sensitivity of the feelings of the other person and not hurting them. Be frank and open. It is a two way street. You have to confide in the other person as much as they confide in you. Keep these as secrets only between you, that will gain and keep the trust forever. Even if something does go wrong between both of you, never talk negative about that relationship or person ever, to anyone.

Basic question is, how is it going to matter in the long run?I'm not against love or relationships, but the main thing I believe is, we are going to live our own life, we have our own thoughts and feelings. So understanding our own self takes a lot of time in general. We need to improve ourselves in the aspects of thinking, working, feeling and predominantly living our lives. This applies to each and every person in the world. Everybody has their own life. So, if we initially understand ourselves, we can then give time to others to share their lives with us.

Understanding that every mind is different will make any relationship stronger than it was before. Making a place in someone's heart partly depends on that person. We are not even completely aware of our own emotions, how can we predict what other person is thinking about us? You cannot force a place to someone's heart. But you could always try to be yourself, don't be extra attentive to a girl bcoz a girl finds it annoying, be normal, enjoy the time with her and she will automatically enjoy the time as well. You can always be helpful and compliment her but within limits, don't over exaggerate compliments because it becomes hard to believe and the girl will think it's just a mere flirt.

Also listen to her when she needs to and tell her your problems to her because we girls love to hear and give advice and be of any kind of help. Oh and if you're a girl, then sorry, I don't know what guys want. And in the end, after she confides everything with you, tell her you understand her, this will mean a lot. So you've got a crush on that guy that you see every day at school and you want to know how to win his heart. While you can't actually make someone fall in love you, there are a few ways and rules to follow that can help you get his notice and make him start thinking about you.

See step one to get started here. Getting His Attention is to first smile, place yourself in his path. Play it cool boy. Make him laugh a lot. Be nice to his friends and use the "3 strikes and you're out" rule. Deepening the Relationship is a step by step process and can take from days to months. Remember to have a successful first date and pay attention to his interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes too. Don't take him for granted for anything and everything. If you apply these method you can easily make a place in someone's heart. Cheers!