Soulful Connection: Spiritual Love

Spiritual love is only is there if you have a soulful connection, it is called love, otherwise it is just lust or superficial liking. Love can be: between Parents and children, amongst siblings, between teacher and student, between husband and wife, between Bhakta and Almighty (Existence). What I truly believe is not important to any context since I am a very normal human being. But, love is a rattling emotion of women's heart. The moment woman loves, she always associates all intensity to it and tries to classify it as a soul connection, or bond into eternity so on. Having said this connections of high intensity love exists. But it is retrospective conclusion. If you in first sight see something deep please consider it karma in the first order.

I remember she was getting marriage proposals every other day as she believed how she can get married to the person about whom she doesn’t know anything. She refused many but she got agreed to meet one person on request of her parents because her parents believed he will be best for her. She did not knew what actually soulful connection was. But all her questions were answered, when she met him for the first time. She couldn’t figured out what actually happened with her, but this was the first time when she strongly felt that connection, that immediate connection was so strong that she couldn’t stop herself from saying “Yes” for the new journey with him, even when she was finding excuses not to meet him.

With time, that bond was going deeper and deeper. Both had conversations from where she got to know, their likes, hobbies, interests, dreams, thinking all are similar. Sometimes she thought, how is this possible? But that was happening in real because souls were already tuned into the same station. Then, time came when both started helping each other in their professional life, both created way to help out each other and this was the only thing they loved other than just being around one another, that was creating together.

In the beginning, both were afraid to open up with each other, there were fears of judgements but in the way, they understood and respected each other, they started sharing flawlessly each and everything related to past, present, future,fears, insecurities and all the parts of their life which made them feel more comfortable, happy and started feeling like friends or family already. Both were not looking for a real relationship, but it all happened suddenly, doesn’t matter how inconvenient or ill-timed it was, the most beautiful thing was both made it worked.

The thing which she loved about this relationship was she felt more inspired everyday to be the person which actual she was. He gave her freedom to live her own life, encouraged her to do those things, which she used to do even when she was single due to which she never felt that she should avoid or escape from this relationship. Whatever she dreamt of about his life partner, she got all those things in him, and she also never tried to change him as a person, she loved the person which actually he was.

He never missed any chance to make her feel special with his little efforts and in return, she tried her best to do same for him. After all these things, she realised how she was afraid to get married, but now all those fears were removed suddenly and new one was developed in place of all those, what was that? Fear of losing him and that was the most scariest thing she ever felt. And that was the best and worst thing, both brought out through this soulful connection. With all these, she became more patient, more understandable and she was loving this change in her life.

Soulful connection, when you instantly feel connection after meeting someone special and that connection is always so strong that you can’t stop yourself from being drawn towards him or her and within days it gets stronger and deeper. Yes! I always feel a soulful connection in love from the day, when I met right person in my life as life seems more beautiful now. Since then I started to believe in soulful connections in love. When you meet your soul, your love, your heart and mind instantly says, “yes she is the one or he is the one”. This happens when your thoughts, understandings and emotions reciprocate in a similar way.

In simple words, your frequencies should match and create a new frequency of yours to continue in life with a dream of “Ours” to be fulfilled with win-win policies. (Dononke Dil ki dhadakane ek honi chahiye, dil ki ghantiya ek sath bajani chahiye) Now, it’s no more a soulful connection (exceptions are there) at least in cities. The main connection in these days is money, power, position and beauty. When you have these then there will be more people willing to connect saying it to be Soulful connection. Now the connections are selected. These type of connections have expiry dates.

But for some real love is a myth, a mirage which makes hell for soul. Freedom is the nature of soul & love comes only to heal your karmic part. In all births we have find a new body & new relations. The one today is your love, no one knows what relation would be with him in next birth. So love and soul are two different things. Soul only loves to God & see this world as a greatest creation of God. So it's love flows for entire universe. A great philosopher once said like this…’We’re a Spirit, we have a body’. I believe, we are not purely physical only beings; we have a spirit and a connection gets established between two souls.

Two persons are attracted to each other because of past life association. The familiarity with each other reappears. Now what? In the big plan of planet earth, we are sent here to learn and evolve. Marriage is a system, where two travellers travel together, learn from each other and evolve. Each spouse aids the other in higher evolution. If this doesn't happen, the whole system is of no use, including the love. The only love that needs to be considered is love for God, the Creator. Human love is mere attraction, and past familiarity, which often blinds. Yes I thoroughly obey this connection. Ever connected that way with anyone? I know people connect themselves in this way with their mother and pets. Yeah there are some who embrace themselves with the Lord in that way. So this is the most pure connection we have seen so far. Cheers!