Sorry, Not Sorry
The Art of the Apology
One of the hardest conversations to have is one where you have to say “I’m sorry.” Conflicts are a normal and healthy part of existence, and a lot of conflict boils down to accountability. We all make mistakes; when we mess up, we should reflect, connect, and move forward. Often, that means we have to apologize.
While everyone must apologize sometimes, not all apologies are good apologies. You know exactly what I mean if you’ve ever read a weak apology tweeted out by a celebrity or received the dreaded “I’m sorry you feel that way” from a friend. Apologies are meant to be a genuine expression of remorse, not a performance to satisfy the requirement. Saying “but” or “I guess I’m just a horrible person” do nothing to express real remorse.
Make It A Habit:
Here are some tips for crafting a real apology:
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