Sometimes you have to be enough for yourself by yourself!
Abeer Azhar
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Sometimes you have to be enough for yourself by yourself!
We, being humans, want someone to hear us with pure intentions, peace, and faith. That 'someone' should be a sober, understanding, and a genuine listener. Whether we are saying or stay silent, we want someone to see in between words and understand our silence too. But we need to understand that listeners vary. Some people just listen and some people listen and understand keenly, whom we call good listeners.
My point here is, before opening yourself up in front of someone, before wishing to get heard, ‘you should write'. (I used to write. I still do.) Write for yourself. Write everything which is in your heart or mind. Every feeling, every thought, which makes you feel good or bad, best or worst, deep or basic, whatever it is, Just Write It Down. Write it for yourself because sometimes you have to be enough for yourself by yourself. Read yourself first, Hear yourself first by your very own self. Write it to make yourself understand by yourself.
Overcome your fear of depending on others, and be enough for yourself to make it through anything. Because it’s better to open yourself up in front of you first, instead of anyone else.
Note: If you can't or don't wanna write, I am happy to help because I am a good listener and will definitely help you to find a possible way out. :)
PS: I just put up my thoughts into words. :)
Have a good day!??
Cheerio.?