Sometimes it is better to buy peace than being right!
Kishore Ramkrishna Shintre
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In a world full of chaos where everything seems to be temporary than its actuality of being temporary, you begin to ponder if you were to live or to die in the next moment. The peace that I am talking about does not come easy, it comes at a cost. The cost of contradicting truth - Right is good, it is a virtue and is fair, but peace is contentment. As I found myself more, beginning to understand life by degrees of emotions I had felt in different moments - I also found, I needed to become the peace that I was seeking and this is very satisfying feeling.
When you ask for justice and fairness, when you want to shout on top of your lungs that you are a powerfully breathing being and as you are one with the Universe, you know your truth. However, you don’t necessarily have to be right always - sometimes it is so beautiful to be silent and just bask in the peace that prevails.
You need to understand, you are a living, breathing, gentle thing and not everyone will treat you with respect and love if you forget to do the same for yourself. When people seek help, help them with the intention of helping them without getting attached.
The ebb and the flow that life is in its waking reality, I have realised, 'Sometime it is better to be at peace than being right'. Because when you choose to be silent and not speak or react at the drop of a hat, you are entitling yourself to be able to see more. When you speak less, you allow yourself to be open to things beyond how they exist. You are actually here to do great things in the world and choosing to be always right only harms your sanity and your will to just be. So allow yourself to see beyond what is available to you through naked eyes.
Our society’s major advantage (besides the economies of scale and specialisation) is that increased communications can foster greater understandings. But of course, at the risk of misunderstandings, tension for those who do not want to understand more and even for evil intentions for predators to flourish with their greater proximity to prey. The Bible says for believers to remain at peace (not naively demand it) when possible (because in society it pays dividends) but not at the expense of truth telling and doing.
So surely the rule would be to say/do right and whenever that aligns with others, to remain at peace. People in general tend to make everything complicated by attaching some kind of moral principle to it. In your question I can sense your desire of being right, what you consider being right or wrong is based on your belief system. Belief is something which is based on some conclusion you had made on something.Peace can be found within, if you are not giving any expression to what you call being right or wrong.
Peace is not something which you have to choose, it finds its expression when you continue to let things be, as they are. Because the question of being right or wrong always occurs, when you want to make a conclusion out of some discussion or argument. You are the best judge to decide in that particular situation, but mostly buying peace is better than winning the argument by saying I am right! Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre
In relationships, professional life or otherwise, it is very important to be right, but it is even more important to be at peace because nobody is going to offer it to you.
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4 年True and then there are times when it’s not about being peace in unjust and oppression it’s about awakening people to love and peace of just doing right as the Bible says we have to follow mans law and we have constitutions and citizens rights and peace isn’t just excepting the unjust why can’t the ones doing the evil have the same heart of wanting peace to something that is right ??????????
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4 年Totally agree. I think everyone who has been living in third-world countries as I do all my life - respect peace and freedom more
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4 年Apt ! ?? Sometimes, people mask their hypocrisy with soi- disant peace.. we need not to unmask them. Rather, better be busy in bettering yourself everyday. ??
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4 年Absolutely.... sometimes silence over argument becomes imperative. It is all about being at peace.