There is something nice in everyone

To begin with, let me tell you that there can be our close ones who may start hating us for some reasons and there can be some people whom we have just met who may hate us (by being judgemental). If it's someone close to you then you can easily sense something wrong when they suddenly pretend to be nice to you but they won't really mean that. But their behavior and body language can be of significant change. A bit unusual and you will get that sooner or later.

And the ones who used to get cheered up at your sight would wear pretentious smiles which won't even reach their eyes. Moreover, they may always try to avoid to share a common space with you eventually, but in a convenient way, so that you don't get to know the real intention. Also if it goes too far then they may oppose you or taunt you by giving excuses of your well being or like “you know, I assume you shouldn't do this. Just for your good, you should know.”

I am a firm believer in the fact that you can always say something nice about everyone. Even the person I hate with an absolute passion. I can say I have learned from them. How not to behave in order to not be like them. Someone that everyone hates is an easy one. The chances are pretty darn good you don’t even know this person. You are seeing someone who is reacting to how they are being treated. They are uncomfortable and feel inferior to all around them. And believe me, they know how everyone feels. Words don't have to be said for them to know.

Everyone has something nice about them. How about just saying hello to this person? How about just spending a few minutes with this person and seeing who they really are? I have moved around a lot in my years and I have found out this. The people with the least friends have the most need for a friend. I try to be friends or at the very least acknowledge them. They have lots to share and they are grateful to have a friend. They come quite into bloom when spoken to.

However, is it possible you could simply give this person a few minutes of your time rather than try to sell them to someone else? Everyone else from my friend groups also dislike the same people, and for valid reason; they were rude, selfish and liked to bitch and turn people against each other, while portraying themselves as the victim and I don’t really understand that concept. However, I think that they are intelligent and resourceful, respectively. I was more hurt than angry when I stopped hanging out with them. But, with everything that happened, it was hard to hang on.

However careful a person is to hide his negative emotions, one can feel it and then confirm it from that person's talk and body language . You be your normal making the other think that he/she is nice and you don't have any inkling of that person's hatred towards you. Once his happens he/she would not try to hide the negative feelings and it will come in the open. Another way is to confront that person telling straight to the face that I feel that you are not happy with me and not only that you hate me but there is this one thing nice about you which I admire is that you are very honest. Cheers!