Someone you once loved. Someone you may still love, until the day you die.

I’ve been in deep love multiple times. I’ve let people go, and other times they’ve let go of me. In rarer instances, we both let go of each other.

I’ve learned that all love will have problems. It might feel worth it to let them go. It might feel right to give it space.

To let them realize what you had, and come back. But the only love worth keeping is the one you’d fight to keep.

Sometimes we don’t realize this until the letting go is done. At that point, it’s too late.

I wanted her to come back. I waited. And all it did was make her resent me. And over months she gradually fell out of love for the man that wasn’t there. And now she’s gone. And I can feel my own resentment brewing.

But this pain is mine alone. She’s happy in the end.

I believed that we were meant to be. I still believe that. And that’s my biggest fear. That we were meant to be. What I did was ruin it.

Regardless of the ends. I held it in my hands for years, and then I let it go. And someone took my place. And that’s how life works. No one lives forever.

You should assume that your memories are replaceable. As hard as that lesson is, otherwise one day you are destined to be taught this. From someone you once loved. Someone you may still love, until the day you die.

If it’s meant to be, then you fight for it. If it’s not worth fighting for, then it’s not meant to be.

We must learn this. The easy way, or the regretful way. But learn this we will.

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?Thank you?…. When they tell you they don’t love you, believe them, and don’t chase them.

?When they tell you they might be in love with someone else, believe them and don’t take it personally, or stay and hope that they’ll love you someday. If they stay with you, it may be out of pity, not love!

When they show you how they don’t care about you when they are angry, then understand that they’re incapable of being kind so don’t expect them to be kind to you always or every time you need them to be.

?When they tell you they are confused about you, believe them and don’t make excuses for them.

When they tell you they are incapable of loving you, don’t sit and teach them how to love you.

?When they tell you they can’t be in a relationship with you, respect that, and don’t beg. You are devaluing yourself and also teaching them to do so.

When they show you who exactly they are, stop visualizing their potential. Potentials ain’t reality!

?When they consistently show you how inconsistent they can be with commitment, believe them.

?When they tell you they want to love you, but their actions fail to prove that or make you feel safe, believe them and let them be.

The truth is that people will always tell you exactly how they feel about you. The signs will always be there; but sometimes, we ignore them, and get our hearts broken, and say love doesn’t exist!

Love does exist. You’re only looking for it in the wrong people!

Do you want to add a word or two?

Do not date while you're broke, in terrible shape, miserable, or your life is chaotic. Get your life in order first.

You should either have a supportive partner or no partner; there's no third option.

The best revenge is getting yourself to a place where you no longer care about it.

?If someone can't acknowledge their flaws, they lack self-awareness and pose a danger.

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