Some relations truly make you so rich

We need to understand that you have "absolute value" in mind and that in this day and age, whether some women or men believe status is money, wealth and all that which fucks their head over, is not really what gets women of substance to be with a man. You’re self esteem is low. You have been tricked, hoodwinked, like all of us to believe that our self worth is defined by this status called money, called cars, called popularity, called how many people vote for you, and on and on it goes. But these will go. All we try and hold on to will go.

Job. It’s not permanent. It can go. offf! gone! Money. It can go. You can find yourself ill or something crashes. offff. Gone! Your looks can go. We are not celebrities with millions who can go off doing plastic surgery, or go on lots of holidays in year, relax, have best food and all the stuff they don’t tell us about. Looks will go. Gone! Women. Men, friends can go. No control over this. offf. gone! Popularity. One minute everyone loves you. Next minute they are like vultures, ready for you to die to eat your carcass! Gone! Connections. You got them but suddenly. Gone. All these we attach ourselves with can just disappear in an instant and some will take time to go like your age. Or quick, an accident!

We forget what attracted these to us. We did. Our behaviour did. This is our real status. We forget so easily when we get all that and then we self sabotage it all with our own insecurities. If you attach yourself worth, who you are by these, then these will dissappear and you will have nothing. These can disappear with a flick of finger and when they do, then what? What are you going to blame your misery on? You’re true status is not the dollar. Your status is your behaviour, and it is this reason why she is with you and you…are going to screw it up, due to your own self esteem.

You wanted a rich woman. Right? You wanted a girlfriend. Like most guys, right? Then when she arrives what do you do? You question why?! You question your self worth? Think man! Think! A woman of money saw you and now she is your girlfriend. She didn’t see money. She didn’t see a rich guy floating money around. So what was it then that attracted her. You did. Now you’re stepping out of you and into the realm of insecurity because your fearing loss but what you do, is what many insecure men do.

You then self sabotage it because in your head you’re thinking.. “Well, I’m going to lose her anyway, because she is wealthy and I am now. Might as well mess it up and do this and that, and push her away.” Woman do not want to be with a man who is not certain of himself. They want a man who knows who he is. When she met you, you knew who you are and now when you have such a woman, you question who you are. So here’s what you do.

Stop putting her on a pedestal. You do not see your self worth by comparing yourself to someone else. You do not attach external objects like material status, dollar, as your self worth. You’re real status is…..behaviour. Now behave as a man. Communicate with her as a man and make her feel alive. Put a price on how you make a woman feel special and unique. Throw money at women. Try it with most women and they’ll laugh at your face. Especially if she is a woman of her own and who loves herself and who loves a man of character.

She met you before money. Nothing changed but you are, because of your own insecurities. Start investing in your mind, learn about increasing your self esteem. Don’t forget the lesson She was attracted to you before money. Now she is dating you. And it is you now questioning the good that comes. Why? It is self esteem issue. You’re falling trap in believing that your self worth, what makes a man attractive is the dollar. No. What makes a man attractive to women is how you make them feel.

You made her feel. She got drawn to you. She got attracted to you. And she became your girlfriend. Before she knew anything about you regarding money. So the next time you see her, ask her about her work, ask her about her life, celebrate her success. Let her see you’re not intimidated by her wealth. Laugh, make her smile. Tell her how you feel about her with words that arouse her, captures her emotions, leads her imagination that no money can do.

If you don’t know how to make a woman’s mind fly and her body tingle, her heart race, then learn. You don’t need money for that. You need a mind of a man, who is brimming with knowledge on how to do it and the confidence, and balls to dare, and challenge her with his wit, his speech and his confidence. No money can buy that. I know. People, men and women pay me a lot of money to know how to do just that because they love someone, they want to know how to connect and all that they so learnt from school, college, university, mummy, daddy, social norms have failed hem to know how to do..just that.

Be bold. Be unpredictable. Be a man of words who can speak to the natural woman inside her. The real beauty that yearns for a man who is not intimidated and insecure by her success but a man who can smile, celebrate her success, encourage, inspire and make her feel like special and unique, like she is the only woman on this planet - and do it because it means it too. Do it until money, car, status of material fades and she see the man who has just made her feel what no man and money has ever made her feel. Focus on her not the halo effect. Her. Let the natural woman inside her awaken to your spirituality. Cheers!