Some hide pain in their smile

‘Should we hide our emotions and cover a pain with a smile?’ I think, we must all develop the ability to control our emotions and not become the slave of our emotions. We human being are emotional creatures. Most of our actions are driven by our emotions. When we love someone, we do everything to help and promote her. When we hate someone, we do everything to destroy her. When we are happy, we see everyone in the world happy and everything in this world at the right place.

When we are unhappy, we see problems everywhere and find fault in everyone. The reality remains the same but we see the world always through the eyes of our feelings and emotions. The same world, therefore, looks great when we are happy, but looks pathetic when we are unhappy depending upon our emotional state. We want to create or destroy the world depending upon our emotional state of mind. When we are the slave of emotions, we are always liable to be misused by the unscrupulous elements of the society to serve their selfish purpose, sell their products and services and even make us commit crimes and acts of terrorism.

And the only way to see the world truly as it is and not be expedited by unscrupulous elements is to control our emotion and develop the ability to hide it behind a smile. There is another great advantage of hiding your emotion. While it is more common to see our emotions driving our actions, it is also a fact that our actions change our emotions. When you smile despite feeling pain inside, you will soon find that your pain have reduced considerably.

Moreover, when you do your job as usual despite suffering some personal loss at your family, you tend to heal much faster than the one who is mourning over the loss all the time. It is therefore not wrong to hide your emotions at times. However, if you develop the habit of hiding or faking your emotions all the time, you lose credibility before your friends and loved one. We want our friends and loved ones to tell us the truth so that we can share their pain and joy. You must learn to hide your emotions before strangers but express it before them whom you love and trust.

As we are living in an era where emotions plays an important role in youngsters life. If you have friend(girl as friend for boys) and she is your best friend but she loves someone else…and you have love kind of feeling for her. In such situation you should shut your mouth because she is already happy with someone else. Because love is all about giving and making the person happy whom you love.. Not that person also having the same feeling for you just hide your feeling and not say anything about what you feels…

If you have such friend having no partner but she/he is your best friend. You guys are always there for each other but you have feeling for her in such situation you should go to her or him and share what to feel for the person and just reveal all your secrets from your heart and release yourself from such ban but now it all depends on the person in front of you, whether the person will accept your proposal or not.. If yes them congratulations if not then just say I hope it will not be affected our friendship we were friends , we are and we always be!!

Hide your emotions means emotions like feeling hurt or low or negative or not so good about something. Now there are two things about it. Not showing it to others and accepting and feeling and still smiling in front of people around. Not letting these emotions to overcome you and your behaviour with people around. Indeed you can tell to your closed one’s or people you know will understand you. Not accepting the fact that you are feeling these kinds of emotions inside you and living in Denial.

These will keep accumulating and will keep piling up. One day you will not be able to bear the burden and will burst out all of sudden. The first one is the sign of Strength, that when you know what you are going through, you are in process of how to deal with it, you are trying each day, you are still able to survive and still smiling. Accepting the fact that things are not so good and still smiling, shows that you are Brave. Eventually smiling becomes your habit. Initially, you Smile just for the sake of smiling but later this acts as the best medicine and all those emotions are healed automatically. My Mantra therefore is "Fake it till you actually, make it". Cheers!