Some of The Best Advice I Ever Received.

It started with: "Leave the world alone".

...because it can’t show you what you haven't given yourself.

The world you see isn't separate.

You're looking out at your own mental conceptions and perceptions.

And all your intentions, strategies and personal development and all the reading, coaching and improving this and fixing that.. it can’t help you.

Not until you make 3 decisions.

1. ?? The decision for what you'd now love to see in your world.

2. ?? The decision you’re having this. (A no-return commitment to your choices).

3. ?? The decision to occupy a state of mind aligned with fulfilment of your decision.

Because you can’t have the business, the money, the health, the relationships, the love, the freedom or the lifestyle you want until you decide and give up wanting it or needing it.

Because your world reflects your state of mind.

It can only show you who you're being.

There’s only an abundance of what you’re aligned with and no amount of doing can outdo this.

And almost all of what you're currently doing is from the state of being the one who doesn't yet have what you want.

So the world just reveals you to yourself... for your benefit.

And yes, you're free to defer, delay, distract and deny yourself by staying in wanting.

You're free to keep looking out there and taking action and doing all sorts from a state of lack in a bid to change things.

And some of your actions may serve as permission slips for you to shift your state..

But you can’t change the Law of Being, no matter how hard you try.

There’s only now and there’s only the fulfilment of your current state.

Your desires are natural. Fulfilment is natural. Fulfilling your desires is natural.

Remaining in a state of wanting isn’t.

When you know how the mind and the law of our own nature operate, you know decisions end all of the wanting.

You make a decision.

And you move mentally from desire and wanting to desiring...... which is very different.

Desiring is knowing. It's acceptance. It's expectation.

And all your thoughts, behaviours, actions and results then align.

Think of it like ordering in a restaurant.

?? Hunger

?? Menu

?? Decision

?? Delightful Expectation

?? Arrival

?? Next. (Desires keep coming. They're natural. They're to be decided upon, enjoyed and experienced!)

When you're in the restaurant...

?? you don’t question the menu to see if the chef has the ability or the ingredients.

?? you don’t run into the kitchen to check if your steak is still coming.

?? you don't call the waiter back and change your order.

?? You decide what you’d love and you occupy the state of fulfilment.

Knowing. Expecting.

And in the meantime you enjoy life, from a state of fulfilment because that's what you want more than anything anyway!

Food for thought. ??

Love Rob

P.S. Indecision and Striving are both on the menu but having tried them, I don't recommend either. Freedom's also on the menu and it's a good choice.

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