Solomon's Paradox and How to Escape It?

King Solomon was wise when solving other's problems, but terrible at solving his own. Can you relate?

Solomon Paradox was named after the wise King Solomon, renowned for his legendary wisdom in ancient times. He was famous for giving excellent advice to others. However, he struggled to follow his advice when faced with personal choices.

What is Solomon's Paradox?

• We offer clearer, more objective advice to others facing difficulties.
• When facing our own issues, emotions, biases, and self-immersion cloud our judgment.
• This applies to relationships, career choices, finances, and various life domains.

Why does it happen?

• Distance: It's easier to detach from others' emotions and see the bigger picture.
• Perspective: We lack self-awareness about our blind spots and hidden motivations.
• Emotions: Our own problems trigger stress, clouding our rational thinking.

How to escape it?

1. Seek external objectivity: Talk to trusted friends, mentors, or a therapist for an outside perspective.
2. Distance yourself: Imagine you're advising a friend with your problem. What advice would you give them?
3. Write it down: Journaling about your issue can help distance yourself and analyze it logically.
4. Focus on values: Consider what's important to you in the big picture, not just immediate emotions.
5. Identify biases: Reflect on past experiences and potential influences on your judgment.
6. Seek knowledge: Research similar situations and solutions, learning from others' experiences.

Remember: Breaking free from Solomon's Paradox takes time and practice. Be patient with yourself and celebrate progress, not perfection.

I hope this helps! Feel free to ask any further questions you might have about the paradox or specific strategies for applying it to your situation.