SO THANKFUL
Judith A. Levy, Ed.M., O.T.R.
author "Activities to Do with Your Parent Who Has Alzheimer's Dementia"
What a year 2020 was. I'm so glad that we've reached today.
But with that comes a caveat...
As precautions from Covid are easing, facilities are starting to reopen. Family members you haven't been able to see in person might have changed from the way you remember them and how they, in turn, remember you. They might have increased cognitive loss that was not apparent when you communicated through the window – when your interaction was stifled by masks and distance.
When you are able to visit, go slowly. Don't assume that they will know your name, reintroduce yourself - “Hi Mom/Dad, It's Jane, I'm so happy to finally be with you in person. Can I hug you?” Wait for their response before reacting. Consider bringing a familiar object from your loved one's past that you can discuss, perhaps a photograph or an article of clothing. You can use your smart phone to play music that they will know. Bring a special food that they loved.
At this holiday season I wish all of you the joy of family gatherings and comfort in knowing that you have reached today with the chance for a healthy future.
Activities/Dementia Consulting & Education
3 年Good insights, and advice in the article. It is important to educate family members on this very realistic, sensitive topic.
Owner; Dementia Care Educator, CDP; CADDCT; CMDCP at New Dawn Dementia Understandings
3 年Great advice, Judy. Thanks for posting, and a Happy Holiday to you as well.