So I Got Fired The Other Day

Yes... I got fired!

What a way to start a conversation, right? (Fired is a strong word; let me put it more gently: I lost my job or I was laid off. Sounds better, doesn't it?).

Phew, I can finally say it out loud... It's been four months, but the wound still throbs.

Imagine the phone rings. You are being summoned to the HR office. And yes it's a familiar, unsettling feeling - like being called to the principal's office all over again. As I sank into that chair, my inner child fears resurfaced. The HR representative's words still echo in my mind, "Munashe, your position is being dissolved to make way for a more senior role." I was taken aback, wondering what this meant. I am sure you are thinking the same questions I did - but let's save those for another time. For now, let's focus on the journey that unfolded.

When I think back, I realize that losing my job was not just about losing my income but the emotional struggle that came with it. I felt anxious, ashamed, and unsure of myself. But I also remember the support of my loved ones, the kindness of friends, and the strength I found within me.

In Shona, there's a saying, 'Kukika datya kuriyambutsa,' which translates to "Kicking a frog only propels it further into its purpose." But at the time, it sure didn’t feel like that. What hurt the most was seeing the worry on my loved ones' faces, the constant calls to check if I was okay, and hearing friends talk about me behind my back—it was heartbreaking. It took me an entire month to tell my mom because I didn’t want to risk triggering her blood pressure. Exactly... heartbreaking.

As I navigated this challenging time, I recall the sleepless nights, eating more than I should have, and feeling lost and unsure about my future. It was like walking through a thick fog, unable to see what was ahead. Every step felt uncertain, and I couldn't shake the feeling that I was staring into darkness.

However, in all that chaos, something inside me changed. I began to see that losing my job was not a definition of my worth or abilities. It was a chance to rediscover myself, to rethink my priorities, and to realign my goals.

As I reflect on this experience, I realize that I've grown in many ways. I've developed greater resilience, learned to prioritize my well-being, and discovered new passions. I've also honed my skills as a storyteller, learning to craft compelling narratives that inspire and engage.

Looking back, I realize that losing my job was a turning point for me. It forced me to face my fears, to question my assumptions, and to discover new strengths. I don't want to say it was a good thing, but I can say that I'm in a better place mentally, emotionally, and professionally.

Now, I'm on a new journey, and you're invited to join me! Join my community to receive exclusive updates, tips, and behind-the-scenes insights. I'm excited to share my experiences, insights, and expertise with you, and I hope you'll join me on this new journey.