So this happened…
Natalie Fisher
Subconcious Breakthrough Career coach helping big-hearted, hard-working humans earn, thrive & live well. —> Currently doing a 3 video a day challenge ???Follow along for the data study & to keep me honest
I used to tell myself, “I got screwed over by him,” and I believed it for years.
Let me backup a sec—Before I met my current awesome partner, I was in a toxic relationship for 10+ years.
When we split up, we owned a house—a house I mostly paid for. I put way more towards the house than him.
And guess what happened when we broke up?
I let him keep the house without a fight.And he couldn’t even afford to pay me half of what it was worth when we split.
Why did I let him keep it?
Because I felt bad. Because I was the one doing the ending, I felt like I “should be” accommodating. His elderly parents lived in the in-suite, and I worried they wouldn’t have anywhere to go.
Flash forward a few months anddd
…Home prices skyrocketed. We bought the house for 600K.
Now it’s worth closer to 800-900K.
His elderly parents MOVED OUT because he was unbearable to live with… SHORTLY after the split.
Oof, right…?
I thought,
I got a raw deal.
He screwed me over
I can’t believe I didn’t stand up for myself.
Now I can honestly say it doesn’t really matter.
Because less than a year ago, my new partner, daughter, and I closed on our new home (pictured).
A more beautiful home in a better location.
And yeah, the house is amazing but what is MORE amazing is…
?? Becoming the person who lifts herself up after something like that happens, creates an even better relationship, and is generally in a way better space mentally.
?? Becoming the person who shows my daughter what is possible for her.
?? Becoming the person who shows others that you can “get screwed over” and then live your dreams 3 short years later.
The universe laid down the path for exactly what I was ready for next.
So even though I chose something that didn't look smart 13 years ago, it turned out to be the smartest thing I ever did.
Because...
??I capitalized on every lesson.
??I used those lessons to build and live my dream now.
And, sure, life has its ups and downs. Unwanted things come up sometimes. It happens.
And now I can handle them with the boot camp training I had of being with someone for 10 years who was always on edge, complaining, or angry about something.
领英推荐
I call it my Relationship University.
And leaving without anger or resentment was the final exam.I wouldn't change anything about the last 13 years.
Because the experience was like me launching a rocket.And when a rocket launches, it has boosters that stay on for the first part of the flight.
And then the boosters are no longer needed so they fall away, but they were still instrumental in launching the rocket. ??
That’s what this journey is.
Some people are just like boosters. They’re there for a little while but then they fall away because they’re not going to the same heights as you.
So if you have been burned by someone or something before, if in your past you have things that you have regretted doing, if you're a giver and you gave too much, or felt like you got "screwed,” you're not alone.
And you always have a choice.
A choice to say that experience was my booster, and now I’m going to new heights.
I invite you to join me inside this epic space where things feel different. Things don't feel as heavy or as impossible. And when they do, we get to shift them.
The reason I structured my program the way I did was because I didn't want to send people on their way without results. It didn't feel right.I didn't want to be done with you until you are absolutely changed & don't need me anymore!
Here's what some of my beloved clients have said in their generous podcast interviews sharing the FULL stories of their experiences in the 6FC community.
So if you're still having doubts as to whether this is real, I assure you it’s real AND it takes work. Anything worth having always does.
?? They worked smarter not harder.
?? They created intentionally and they got curious about what they were doing that wasn't getting them the results.
?? They are all smart people with value to offer that they just weren't fully aware of yet.
?? Just like you
In the meantime, check out some quotes from the podcast interviews…
Next Trend Realty LLC./wwwHar.com/Chester-Swanson/agent_cbswan
6 个月Keep shining!.
CWO ? Rewriting the rhetoric.
6 个月I'm glad you can look back on this as a chapter, not your unhappy ending! Here's to more happy chapters ????
Next Trend Realty LLC./wwwHar.com/Chester-Swanson/agent_cbswan
6 个月Amazing!.
Seed Raise: Tokenizing premium spring water & democratizing access to clean drinking water ?? Water security for 7 generations! ?? Quenching thirst, boosting profits ?? 30M+ Impressions/Year | RWA | DeFi | DAO
6 个月Wow! Your story is inspiring, Natalie Fisher. Thank you for sharing.
Emotional Intelligence, Wellness & Creativity -- through a Doctor’s lens. International speaker & coach. HBR, JAMA, Psych Today contributor. Faculty Associate Ross Business School. Book Published Sept. '24!
6 个月Thanks for sharing, Natalie Fisher!!!