A Smile That Stays
Andrea Svecova GMBPsS
Occupational Psychologist, Wellbeing Educator, Health & Wellbeing Newsletter Editor
It’s been many years since I worked at the little coffee shop on the corner, but there are some customers you never forget. Jane and Jimmy were one of those couples. Married for over 60 years, their love for each other was the kind that stood out, even to a young barista like me. They had been through so much together, but the most difficult part of their journey came when Jane was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s.
I remember one morning so vividly. The sun was streaming through the shop windows, and I saw Jimmy gently guide Jane inside, her hand tucked securely in his. They had their usual table by the window, the one where they’d sat countless times over the years. As I brought their coffees—Jane’s cappuccino, Jimmy’s black coffee — I couldn’t help but notice how Jane’s face lit up when I placed the cup in front of her.
Her smile was soft and warm as if something familiar had clicked. I smiled back, feeling that small connection, even though I knew her memory was fading. After a moment, Jimmy looked up at me, his eyes filled with both tenderness and a hint of sadness.
"She doesn’t remember your name," he said quietly, as if he were confiding a secret. I paused, unsure of what to say. But then he smiled, and his voice softened even more. "But she told me the other day—she remembers your eyes."
I was struck by the simplicity of it. Jane, despite the fog that Alzheimer's had wrapped around her mind, had held onto something as small as my eyes. It felt like such a fragile but beautiful thing to be remembered for.
As the two of them sat sipping their coffees, Jimmy began to tell me stories of their life together, how they met, their adventures, and the small rituals that had defined their decades-long marriage. Jane, though quiet, held his hand, her smile still lingering. It was clear she couldn’t recall the details he spoke of, but she felt the love in his words, and that seemed to be enough.
Every time they visited after that, Jane would smile at me in the same way, her eyes warm with recognition. It became a small tradition of ours—me bringing her coffee, her smiling up at me as though we shared something special.
Even though Jane’s memory continued to fade, there was something deeply comforting in those moments. It was a reminder that love and connection can persist in the smallest gestures—a smile, a familiar voice, or even the sight of someone’s eyes.
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Years later, I still think of Jane and Jimmy. I remember their gentle conversations, the way Jimmy cared for her, and the way Jane’s eyes always seemed to find mine, even when words and names slipped away. It's those quiet, intimate moments that stay with you—the ones that speak of a love so enduring, even memory can't erase it.
One day, while I was packing my things to move to another country after leaving the coffee shop where I had spent so many meaningful hours, I heard the doorbell ring as I was heading downstairs. To my surprise, standing at my doorstep were Jane and Jimmy, the couple whose love story had touched my heart deeply over the years.
Jimmy stood there holding something in his hand, with Jane beside him, her eyes filled with a familiar warmth. Seeing them at my door, after all the effort they went through to find my address, felt meaningful. In that moment, I realized it would be the last time I saw them.
They came to say goodbye. After getting my address from the manager, they wanted to leave me with something special to remember them by. Jimmy handed me a small, carefully wrapped box, I opened it to find two treasures that held profound meaning. Inside was Jimmy's pen and Jane's necklace.
Jimmy's pen was more than just a writing instrument; it was a symbol of his thoughtful nature and the many stories he had shared with me. Jane's necklace, with its delicate charm, was a reminder of the grace and warmth she had brought into the coffee shop with every visit.
I was deeply moved by their gesture. Here they were, leaving behind pieces of their lives as a parting gift. Even though I had moved to a different country and started a new job, those tokens of their affection were a reminder of the special connection we had shared.
Jane and Jimmy were more than customers; they represented true love and connection. Their story and the special goodbye they gave me will always be important to me. The kindness they showed and the mementos they left will remind me of their remarkable journey.
Years later, their gesture and love still touch me deeply. Their story reminds me that true connection transcends time and place, and their legacy of love continues to inspire me.
Girl from the coffee shop