The Slow Unraveling of Power’s Impatient Shadows
Tshediso Joseph Sekhampu
Higher Education Leader | Executive Director | Executive Dean | Championing Strategic Growth | African Leadership Insights | Driving Transformation in Academic and Executive Spaces
The pull of power is seductive, yet unforgiving. It draws people in, offering warmth, importance, and, most dangerously, proximity. Those who stand closest often mistake access for ownership, influence for entitlement. Time and again, history repeats itself: the trusted figure who walks alongside power but tires of waiting. The shift from ally to adversary is rarely abrupt: it is slow, methodical, and inevitable.
It begins in the shadows, basking in the glow, yet growing impatient. At first, they are the confidant, the sounding board, the one entrusted with secrets. But power does not come easily. It demands patience, a virtue that proximity erodes.
The unraveling starts subtly: bolt questioning, deference slipping into defiance. A remark in the corridors, a whisper framed as insight, a nod that sows doubt. It is never direct; that would be too obvious. Instead, it is discontent cloaked in strategy: gossip disguised as concern, critique framed as wisdom, an artful dance of playing both sides. Those who have seen this before recognise the shift. It is slow corrosion, a quiet rebellion dressed in loyalty.
Then comes the cry for recognition. The veiled complaints, the performative humility, the careful crafting of an alternative narrative, one where power has been unfair, where talent has been overlooked. The collective begins to splinter as fault lines emerge. The leader, once unquestioned, is now scrutinised. They convince themselves that the centre has grown weak, that stagnation has set in, and that their time is now.
But power is neither blind nor naive. It watches. It listens. And when the moment comes, it reveals itself—not with fury but with certainty. What began as alignment fractures into ambition, and ambition, left unchecked, hardens into opposition. The one who could not wait, who mistook ambition for inevitability, is laid bare. Some break away, their righteousness burning too bright, too fast. Others plot from within, believing they can rewrite the rules, only to be undone by the very forces they sought to manipulate. Few succeed, as they imagine, for power, once disrupted, rarely transfers cleanly.
The allure of power is real, but so is its cost. Those who chase it recklessly mistake ambition for readiness, proximity for inheritance. True power is not seized in a moment of impatience but is cultivated through the endurance of time. It belongs to those who understand that leadership is not about claiming a seat at the table; it is about making oneself indispensable, whether seated or standing.
Then comes silence, not of the dignified kind, but of the aching void of exile, lingering in the empty spaces of a dream patience could have nurtured. The corridors that once buzzed with their whispered influence become silent. Their name, once spoken with respect, becomes a cautionary tale in quiet conversations. In the end, power does not forgive desperation; it rewards only those who understand that its true form is not in seizing, but in earning, not in demanding, but in deserving.
And yet, power’s pull does not release them easily. Heavy with regret, they linger at the edges, searching for cracks, hoping to prove they were right—that without them, power would falter. But power does not stumble to appease wounded egos, nor does it pause for those who could not wait. It simply moves forward, unbothered and unyielding, as the impatient shadow fades, lingering only in the echoes of its own undoing.
If power does not forgive desperation, then tell me: what does it make of those who would rather wait? Are they wise stewards of patience, or mere spectators in a game that never truly pauses?
Senior Manager Accreditation and Quality
4 天前Simply said, hunger for power leads to desperation, which causes individuals to appear desperate and act in an unethical manner to get their way to the upper seat. Like you said, power is a force that requires patience and power does not forgive desperation. A great takeaway!
Donor Stewardship Specialist | Industrial Engineering
5 天前This insightful and cautionary indeed to our ambitious selves. Captivating read for me!