Slow to Speak

Slow. As an adjective it often has a negative connotation. Everything around us moves so quickly. And it’s considered a good characteristic to have a quick comeback, to be quick witted, to think fast on your feet.

While there are times when it is important, especially in business, to be fast. There are also times when being slow is the better choice. One of these is when it comes to communication.

Too often people are too quick to speak. So quick that they may not think their response through. In fact they may not even listen to everything the other person is saying before beginning to formulate their response. But when it comes to building stronger relationships, communication is key.

Whether in a business relationship or a personal relationship, communication is one of the pillars that will support a mutually beneficial, lasting relationship. Let the other person know that you are interested in what they have to say, that you value their ideas. One way to do this is by listening actively and then responding thoughtfully. A considerate response, even when you disagree, opens the door for a respectful exchange.

So in your relationships, be slow to speak. When life moves at the speed of relationships, you want to make sure your relationships are solid and will stand up to the crazy world around us.