Slogan of Gender Discrimination Leads to Disharmony in the Life Span (P-5/6)

Irrespective of a discrimination of status, gender, caste or color, human beings are warned that life is not just fun, pleasure or misusing power under worldly status to rule over fellow human beings, as there is the Unique Creator who will conduct the accountability process for each human deed on the set day of Qimat. Human creation is like a natural process of multiplication in each living being within both the genders as both are created as part and parcel of life mating process, as revealed by the Creator in V-4:1,”O mankind! Be dutiful to your Lord, Who created you from a single person (Adam), and from him (Adam) He created his wife [Hawwa (Eve)], and from them both He created many men and women and fear Allah through Whom you demand your mutual (rights), and (do not cut the relations of) the wombs (kinship). Surely, Allah is Ever an All-Watcher over you.”

?Mankind is reminded that as all are alike in birth and species, each one will come alone to face the Eternal Authority and no one will take the burden neither of his deeds nor by any associates. As sex is a dominant instinct in both the genders, each tries to trap the opposite sex since the origin. Human nature is tempted by extreme and evil deeds as prophet Yousaf, son of prophet Yaqub, successfully escaped an attempt of sexual attack and declared that Nafs e Ammarah (evil self) is within the human beings in V-12:53,”And I free not myself (from the blame). Verily, the (human) self is inclined to evil, except when my Lord bestows His Mercy (upon whom He wills). Verily, my Lord is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful."

Those people who are clever and hypocritical know the art of playing with the others’ sensitive issues. They are reminded that on the Day of Judgment, their life’ record will be presented which will contain precise time and space-based data to see how he earned in life. As he was given chances and the freedom to pass the duration by his Master, it will be seen how he utilized the time and space with what type of goals and interaction with people. It will be checked how he discharged his prayers with abeyance to the Almighty Great Sovereign of the universe and thanked Him who has given him life, senses, identity as a Naib on earth with knowledge and wisdom to rule over other species with abundance of sources and unlimited blessings of the Provider in his life-span. Accountability after death is narrated as similar to waste scattered by winds, in V-23:33-38,” And the chiefs of his people, who disbelieved and denied the Meeting in the Hereafter, and to whom We had given the luxuries and comforts of this life, said: "He is no more than a human being like you, he eats of that which you eat, and drinks of what you drink.”If you were to obey a human being like yourselves, then verily! You indeed would be losers. "Does he promise you that when you have died and have become dust and bones; you shall come out alive (resurrected)?”Far, very far is that which you are promised. "There is nothing but our life of this world! We die and we live! And we are not going to be resurrected! "He is only a man who has invented a lie against Allah, but we are not going to believe in him."

As narrated earlier, human have limitations in life but they are given freedom of choice for which the accountability process over the deeds will be done under the given guidelines of the Master. So, “Maira Jism, Mari Murzi” seems to be a narcissist person’s message but they must consider that this life is not granted for fun but each and every organ of the body will turn a witness against that person in the court of final justice on the Day of Judgment. So, it is warned to all human beings, hypocrites, criminal and clever traitors etc., that people mostly do not understand that life is short but accountability before the Sovereign of the universe is hard as that day even organs will follow His command as a witness against crimes.V-36:65,” This Day, We shall seal up their mouths, and their hands will speak to Us, and their legs will bear witness to what they used to earn. (It is said that one's left thigh will be the first to bear the witness).”

Allah is always gracious to His all creature including the disobedient as He provides chances for the self-correction in V-11-90,”And ask forgiveness of your Lord and turn unto Him in repentance. Verily, my Lord is Most Merciful, Most Loving."

Psychologically, the slogan will have a negative image of women’s role in the teenaged and psychologically fixed E.Q. level women in selection of life partners and to adjust in marital affairs. Such girls who are impressed by the western liberal society with immature thoughts follow such messages. As the slogan was exciting and ridiculous for a layman, so the social media made a hot debate on this stated topic that if women is free to act sexually without any limits, then what is the difference between a prostitute and married women, what would be its role in socialization, marriages, mother role or natural role of a spouse of sexual rights in the multiplication process which may become the cause of issueless couples etc. As such moments are run without a logical consideration in a religious male-dominant set-up by the celebrities, fashion models, and wealthy modern ladies, therefore instead of getting support by the men, even married women turned against such rights. As the media airs and promotes the western liberal culture in dramas and films relating sensitive sex-love roles to the general social life, therefore it has brought a gradual change in the new generation. It will have definitely an impact on marriage, sex, family pattern in coming days. The frequent misuse of cell phones to meet romantic goals of friendship often turns into rivalries, killing girls under family honor. It is reminded to mankind that each and every organ will turn a witness against the deeds done in the given life-time in V- in V- 24:24-25,” On the Day when their tongues, their hands, and their legs or feet will bear witness against them as to what they used to do. On that Day Allah will pay them the recompense of their deeds in full, and they will know that Allah, He is the Manifest Truth.”              

Although religion provides a precise map of rights and duties of both the sexes to generate a healthy marital unit, the blind wish in sex rivalry to dominate the opposite sex has opened new chapters in the young generation. The poor tolerance and copying the western culture without considering the moral and religious-social realities as well as the personality impoverishment, appear to be the root cause of this social hypocrisy trend of developing countries.                         

After marriage, one has to pay the price of dating time dialogue throughout life in blame games while the other looks for opportunities to keep on playing the beloved (teenager) role in extra-marital affairs. In a liberal society, love and sex means the same, so they may practices sex prior to legal bond of marriage, which means nothing new to them. After meeting the sexual starvation and children in marital life, when the apparent beauty of a woman fades, these men forget the romantic dialogues and dating time, and look around for other beauties and get lost in the spell, so the family-unit becomes at stake.

                                                                                                         Cont. ….