Six things every girl should have in mind
Ghazala Shoaib
Head of People & Organization Siemens | HR Business Partner | Empowering Women through WIN@ERG Siemens | A Counsellor | A Coach
To achieve success in life as a female, there are certain principles that you should bear in mind. Here is a compilation of six essential things that you should never forget:
1. Always strive for financial independence: Being financially independent not only empowers you but also your family. It helps your family to have a good life in tough economic times. So, always work towards achieving financial stability and independence.
2. Lift other girls up: If you're the first in your family to study and work, motivate other girls in your family and area. Provide them with support and convince their parents to let them pursue their dreams. You can help change the lives of many girls by simply being a positive influence.
3. Prioritize your life: Nobody can be a perfectionist. Don't feel guilty about not being able to do it all. You have to pick and choose your priorities on a daily basis. Decide what's important to you, whether it's family, yourself, or your career, and plan your day accordingly.
As Stephen Covey said, "The key is not to prioritize what's on your schedule, but to schedule your priorities."
4. Separate your personal and professional life: If you're going through a rough patch in your personal life, try to make your professional life stronger. Work harder and focus on your career. On the other hand, if your professional life has issues, try to make your personal life stronger. Having a balanced life is crucial for your overall well-being.
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"You are the one that possesses the keys to your being. You carry the passport to your own happiness." - Diane von Furstenberg, Belgian fashion designer.
5. Don't compare yourself with others: Every opportunity is unique, and you should jump in without comparing yourself with others.
As Sheryl Sandberg said, "We always evaluate ourselves against other women's parenting, work, and accomplishments. And even though we all know the standard for success and achievement is different for every person, it's still hard to shake off that tendency to compare."
A research by the American Psychological Association has also shown that social comparison can lead to negative emotions and decreased self-esteem. It's important to focus on your own progress and goals, rather than comparing yourself to others.
6. Don't underestimate your capabilities: It's common for girls to underestimate their capabilities and hesitate to jump into new opportunities. When presented with a new role or opportunity, they may evaluate themselves harshly and focus on their perceived weaknesses instead of their strengths. This tendency to undervalue themselves can hold them back from reaching their full potential and can cause them to miss out on valuable experiences. It's important for girls to recognize their worth and have confidence in their abilities, so they can seize new opportunities and achieve their goals.
To sum up, for girls, it is crucial to give priority to achieving financial independence, empowering and supporting other girls, prioritizing their own life goals, maintaining a balance between personal and professional life, and refraining from comparing themselves with others. It's important to always remember that girls possess immense potential to accomplish incredible feats and that by uplifting and supporting others, they can contribute towards building a better world for everyone.
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1 年Amazing read! Thank you for always doing your part in supporting and uplifting other women around you. You are truly inspiring ????